So, a few weeks ago I was going after this one girl, and my homeboys already knew about it. Then my friend's girlfriend started asking about who i liked, so when she started guessing random people, one of them being her own friend, i lied and said yeah it was her because i didn't want people to know. Who would've thought that she planted a thought in my head and as time passed i started thinking about that friend she guessed. I started noticing how pretty she was and how she was perfect in the smallest ways. She's really outgoing and has a fantastic personality. The more i spent time with her, the more i noticed this. I am also a good friend to her and we've known each other for about 3 years. i've just never noticed her in a romantic way before. I think i'm starting to forget the original girl i was after since i don't know her as well. Should i take this chance to ask her out? And if i do, how can i transition from being just a good friend to something more? I'm gonna say my thanks in advance, so please help me out!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My Situation
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