So, a few weeks ago I was going after this one girl, and my homeboys already knew about it. Then my friend's girlfriend started asking about who i liked, so when she started guessing random people, one of them being her own friend, i lied and said yeah it was her because i didn't want people to know. Who would've thought that she planted a thought in my head and as time passed i started thinking about that friend she guessed. I started noticing how pretty she was and how she was perfect in the smallest ways. She's really outgoing and has a fantastic personality. The more i spent time with her, the more i noticed this. I am also a good friend to her and we've known each other for about 3 years. i've just never noticed her in a romantic way before. I think i'm starting to forget the original girl i was after since i don't know her as well. Should i take this chance to ask her out? And if i do, how can i transition from being just a good friend to something more? I'm gonna say my thanks in advance, so please help me out!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My Situation
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