Riznich
New Member
Basically it's like this. I'm occasionally seeing this one girl that is crazy about me but we can't be in a relationship because her dad hates me (long story). So I occasionally saw her (she's at school far away) and we dated and stuff but never got serious to a relationship level.
Here's the problem. Since I can't be with her she's going out with this guy she likes, but not nearly as much as me according to her. He's the "rich suburban big muscle jock", while i'm the "rarely has enough cash funny skinny guy from the streets of chicago". I great with the humor and she thinks i'm much hotter than him. The thing is that she goes to a small college so everyone knows everyone. Not only that but because of this she see this guy all day everyday. Mr wallet over there likes taking her out for lunch and dinner and a movie and just about anything so he's with her a lot where as i see her bi-weekly. He's also great at buying her expensive gifts... Lucky me!
Now they haven't really done anything but made out a couple times so i dealt with it seeing as she wasn't "mine" in the first place. But just tonight i hear that she slept at his dorm so you know what obviously happened. Not only that but the last time I was with her I failed (performance anxiety.....damn you to hell!!) Not only that but she was supposed to be my first (if not for that damn problem mentioned above).
She knows that this relationship probably won't last long (he lives 3 hours away when she leaves school after this semester) so I'm happy about that. She also told me that i'll probbably get a second chance to "hit that" its just that I don't know when. I'm supposed to call her tomorrow but i'm thinking of trying the ignore tactic to get her more interested in me. I seriously don't know what the f--- to do.
So does anyone have any thoughts whatsoever on this situation?
I know i should move on and I will eventually (i have some other girls on the side so this isn't that important) but she's the best of the bunch overall and i'd love to keep her as long as i can.
Any response welcome.
Here's the problem. Since I can't be with her she's going out with this guy she likes, but not nearly as much as me according to her. He's the "rich suburban big muscle jock", while i'm the "rarely has enough cash funny skinny guy from the streets of chicago". I great with the humor and she thinks i'm much hotter than him. The thing is that she goes to a small college so everyone knows everyone. Not only that but because of this she see this guy all day everyday. Mr wallet over there likes taking her out for lunch and dinner and a movie and just about anything so he's with her a lot where as i see her bi-weekly. He's also great at buying her expensive gifts... Lucky me!
Now they haven't really done anything but made out a couple times so i dealt with it seeing as she wasn't "mine" in the first place. But just tonight i hear that she slept at his dorm so you know what obviously happened. Not only that but the last time I was with her I failed (performance anxiety.....damn you to hell!!) Not only that but she was supposed to be my first (if not for that damn problem mentioned above).
She knows that this relationship probably won't last long (he lives 3 hours away when she leaves school after this semester) so I'm happy about that. She also told me that i'll probbably get a second chance to "hit that" its just that I don't know when. I'm supposed to call her tomorrow but i'm thinking of trying the ignore tactic to get her more interested in me. I seriously don't know what the f--- to do.
So does anyone have any thoughts whatsoever on this situation?
I know i should move on and I will eventually (i have some other girls on the side so this isn't that important) but she's the best of the bunch overall and i'd love to keep her as long as i can.
Any response welcome.
