My sisters a ****...

[BenPW-DJNewbie]

Me and my sister have just had a one sided argument (Her)
She called me ugly, and stupid and how I'll never get a good girl and how im annoying and everything like that.

What she doesnt know is that just gives me the ultimate willpower to go and imrpove myself and then turn back
and say to her : 'Im sorry? now whose average...?'


There is no actual reason to this post, Im on a rant. grrr:cuss: just well ****ed me off.
For bout two years now, I been trying to get a girl. Now, a couple of pretty hot girls fancy me, and now I really dont want a girl...Life is pretty F'ed up.

 

[WesCottII]

Lmao, she's your sister. Thats what they do, and what they're there for.

Holding grudges against family is never good dude, let it lie.

 

[BenPW-DJNewbie]

ok man

 

[Bunk 040]

Dont hold a grudge against your sister, but still use that as motivation. Quit looking for hoes and get yourself together and have FUN then one will find you. Quit being depressed all the time, enjoy life it's not F'd up all the time.

 

[BenPW-DJNewbie]

Well, I am using that as a huge motivation. Im going to write down a list of things that are good about me, and a list about the bad things about me. If you do this, try it with a close friend, you need an outside prospective. I'm going to ask a close friend. Then, I'll find things that I can do to improve those areas.
If you want to try this, then please do. Im forgetting about girls. I'm sick of chasing. It's pretty boring, and now im being chased, I dont want a girl...

 

[penkitten]

you know, when i was a teenager, in a household with 3 brothers, i would say and do the darnest things to my brothers just because i could. they would be in shock that i could be so quick to say something that would hurt their feelings.

we are all grown now, and i live out of state. i regret everything terrible i ever said or did to them. i hope that in no way did i ever help to break them down as future men, because i never intended that. i was just a little girl with raging hormones and had no control over them.

when i go home to see them, they stop what they are doing and spend time with me and i value that time. i hope that i have my brothers forever.

i hope one day that you and your sister become close and learn to resolve your issues. i know that it is almost impossible to live under the roof with a woman with raging hormones in her teenage years up to her mid 20s.
in her defense, she has no clue of what she is doing, and i hope that she figures it out before she destroys some vulnerable guy who has only the best intentions for her.

but you, you are so much wiser than most teenage boys, as you are using the frustration as motivation to become a good man and to better himself before trying to just chase tail. the tail will come when it comes, but motivation to better yourself, is more of a use it or loose it thing.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Siblings fight all the time man... lol it'd actually be bad if they didn't give you those fights to challenge yourself with.
So she calls you ugly, stupid and annoying... haha everyone is capable of having these qualities, she's mostly letting her personal side take away from the truth though.

You could always give her the chance of improvement back at her... like saying "yeah and you'll never get a good man if you talk to guys like that."
A comeback of this sort flips everything, cause she'll either defend herself or say something stupid and unrelated to try to get back at you.

You sister is way more AFC than you dude. haha I actually think you should help her, cause you're already on your way to becoming a man with the new attitude you have of making yourself into who you want to be.
And she sounds like shes pretty unhappy heh.

 

[eminence]

lol what was the argument about? "No sister im not a loser! come touch my penis no one else does teheheheh"

your sister sounds hot, send her my way.

 

[Ratisson]

start fvcking her friends

 

[BenPW-DJNewbie]

lmao, some funny guys here. Lol HOT! ew... lol
Her friends are munters... her EX friends were hotties though, but they were all 17, and she'd hate me for life. Im a pretty sensitive guy when it comes down to family. I love my sister and value her opinion of me highly which is why it hurts more when she criticises me..lol today, this random girl told me 'will you stop talking? you sound gay and its annoying me...' so I said to her 'do I look like I give a ****?' her face was priceless. Thanks for the support too guys, it just gives me a spark to light the huge dump of fuel ready to be unleashed on my SI, it's time to hit her argument out the ****ing window..

 

[Omen]

Sisters do that stuff. Its why we have them. lol

Mine when younger use to always tell me I was worthless, I would never be anything, i'm not smart i'm not this, etc etc.

She was at that teen stage. And even now sometimes at age 22 she still on occasion lets out the...SHUT UP when she comes in town, or you're annoying.

Dont let it bug you too much man. I use to have to tone it out cause being told you are a failure can suck, and especially from someone that is your sibling.

Relax some, and dont forget about girls cause of your sister. Sometimes they try to ruin stuff, but you have to keep plugging away. Sometimes they get tired of it if you dont give in and go.. .F I hate it all, i'm a loser, blah blah. Then your sister wins, and she laughs to her friends.... My brother is a loser and he cries, etc etc.

I know it sucks, but be a man, suck it up, and LIVE YOUR LIFE. Dont let your sister live it for you, or tell you what you are and aren't, or what you should or shouldn't do. And keep that attitude of... I dont care what you think.

If I dont get a girl, so what, if someone tells me they think i'm what ever, I say... Does it look like I care, or do I look like someone who cares?

Dont let people get to you. I still work on that. Sometimes its hard to just let it go when your hot as heck and on fire. I hate people pissing me off, but I try real hard to go... I dont care, or I could care less. I've gotten SO MUCH better. Just work on it dude.

And date your sisters friend(s) to show her whose boss