My sister has a very beautiful Armenian friend in New Jersey/NY

[bigdave17]

Yes. Always this.

I've done this already and it didn't help me 1 bit with the women I want

I'm not gonna settle down with a 34 year old until I'm 40 and I'm never gonna touch a single mom so what's the point? It doesn't magically help you have confidence with the women in your league

 

[Spaz]

Ain't asking you to date single mom's.

Get a HB 3 who's looking for a man like you whose imo just an average looking guy and not a 9-10 as you claim you are.

Work from there.

 

[bigdave17]

Ain't asking you to date single mom's.

Get a HB 3 who's looking for a man like you whose imo just an average looking guy and not a 9-10 as you claim you are.

Work from there.

HB3? Are you out of your ****ing mind? I had a HB6 approach me 2 weeks ago but I didn't want to date her because she's white and too tall

I want a HB6-8 who is Spanish/Italian/Greek/Middle Eastern

and I'm nowhere near average looking. The average guy on the street is chubby and looks like garbage. He's not 5'10 190 11% BF with big ass arms and a jawline like quagmire

this chick in the OP is about who I should be dating

 

[devilkingx2]

If she is not willing to move to Chicago at some point, then no point in my even meeting her

I guess if you're not going to eventually end up winning a nobel prize, there's no point in ever inventing anything

 

[R.U.G.]

@bigdave17, I'll hook you up. Send me her info, and I'll go down to NJ and check her in and out for you and report my findings. ;'p

 

[bigdave17]

@bigdave17, I'll hook you up. Send me her info, and I'll go down to NJ and check her in and out for you and report my findings. ;'p

dude you're not Armenian, she's not going to want anything to do with you

These chicks are insanely loyal within their ethnicity

 

[R.U.G.]

dude you're not Armenian, she's not going to want anything to do with you

These chicks are insanely loyal within their ethnicity

Already have two Armenian chicks under my belt. I think you're mistaken about Americanized Armenian women. Especially one's in the NYC area.

 

[bigdave17]

Already have two Armenian chicks under my belt. I think you're mistaken about Americanized Armenian women. Especially one's in the NYC area.

must have been born here in the US. Ones born in Armenia are ridiculous about their ethnicity loyalty

I personally would love Armenian wife but I wouldn't hesitate to date a hot Spanish or Italian chick either

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Take a deep breath and pay attention, Dave.

In my last post I presented to you the suggestive idea of being challenged for the woman you desire, and look at how you are reacting to that. Your mind went straight to thoughts of denial, defensiveness and self-validating behavior.

"She wants only Armenian men."
"I don't even have to be as good looking as anyone else because I'm Armenian."
"I can be a 4 and still get this woman"
"and I'm super attractive by Armenian standards."

Validation. Validation. Validation.

Now look at what you are actually doing right now. Look at your actions at this very moment.

You're getting angry when you read advice from others that you don't want to hear.
You're swearing.
You're being defensive and validating yourself.
You're in denial about any competition whatsoever.
You're already considering cracking open the wallet to plan a flight to visit a woman that doesn't even know the sound of your voice.

You are conveying traits of stubbornness, frustration, insecurity, denial and a level of desperation that would lead a man to consider spending hundreds of dollars over a pretty face; a woman you have not even spoken to yet.

This is what you are really doing and really conveying in real life.
This is what women see and you do not.
This is why you have all of the "tools", but cannot get anything done with them.

His entire frame and rulesets and standards behinds women needs to be trashed and rebuilt.

 

[CBear]

Take a deep breath and pay attention, Dave.

In my last post I presented to you the suggestive idea of being challenged for the woman you desire, and look at how you are reacting to that. Your mind went straight to thoughts of denial, defensiveness and self-validating behavior.

"She wants only Armenian men."
"I don't even have to be as good looking as anyone else because I'm Armenian."
"I can be a 4 and still get this woman"
"and I'm super attractive by Armenian standards."

Validation. Validation. Validation.

Now look at what you are actually doing right now. Look at your actions at this very moment.

You're getting angry when you read advice from others that you don't want to hear.
You're swearing.
You're being defensive and validating yourself.
You're in denial about any competition whatsoever.
You're already considering cracking open the wallet to plan a flight to visit a woman that doesn't even know the sound of your voice.

You are conveying traits of stubbornness, frustration, insecurity, denial and a level of desperation that would lead a man to consider spending hundreds of dollars over a pretty face; a woman you have not even spoken to yet.

This is what you are really doing and really conveying in real life.
This is what women see and you do not.
This is why you have all of the "tools", but cannot get anything done with them.

It's just the way he copes unfortunately. If something doesn't go his way, he's going to find a way to fault everything other than himself. For example, if he meets this Armenian girl and she doesn't maintain contact with him after the date cause she wasn't in to him, he'd have a range of excuses from "she wasn't my type to her personality was horrible."

Dave seems like a good fella in most aspects but the way he thinks is just out of place. My guess is he's never had a sexual relationship with an Armenian woman and gradually developed this imagination that they have better personalities and are better looking as a way to cope with his failures with white women. Being from Europe myself, Ik some Europeans in the U.S. who are unsuccessful with dating and use excuses very similar to these as a way to feel better.

This coping mechanism only seems to work but it builds up so much frustration inside...aka 1.6k posts in 10 months.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

LOL

Bigdave17 we should say the same thing to you. Quit repeating your bull****.

You have a laser cut diamond frame for your belief system and strategy. But it's completely unsuccessful.

We said for the sniper to heat up he has to fire a couple test rounds.

 

[sosousage]

shes not that hot. shes looking like 30yo girl i dated. but she was mental

(but that girl i dated was less fat/slobby)

 

[MrJack]

She is 28 or 29, just came to the country on a tourist visa but is staying around (I think working on getting a work visa). My sister said she is an art teacher, supposedly smart and very nice. Literally fits all my exact standards (face, body, height, ethnicity, even her mom is gorgeous)

What would you do if you were me? Here's the problem with the situation

- she lives in Jersey, so what are the odds she would want to move to Chicagoland suburbs for me? Zero chance I'm moving. My job situation is so phenomenal, I can't risk it

- even if she jumps on it and wants to be with me, how do I know she likes me for me and isn't just doing it for the green card and because I'm very successful? on the flipside, I'm like a 9-10/10 for Armenian male standards. There is a massive disparity between men and women in Armenia - the women are generally stunningly gorgeous while the men are mostly very ugly. A standard 7/10 white guy in Armenia would be considered a 10/10. Armenian women are also massively loyal and only want to be with Armenian men so the odds of her leaving me after we get married are probably pretty low

How hard do I want to jump on this? She is pretty much a 10/10 to me

Yea she just got here and you’re imagining your life together already. You’ve already lost her.

Based from all your other threads, you’ve finally found your definition of a unicorn and now that you have, you have pedestalized the fvck out of her already.

All I can say is good luck

 

[Bible_Belt]

She kind of looks like Natasha, from the old Boris and Natasha cartoons that made fun of the Soviets.

 

[MrJack]

If she is not willing to move to Chicago at some point, then no point in my even meeting her

If she isn’t moving to Chicago... you wouldn’t want to at least fvck her while she’s here? What a waste of a good opportunity.

Might as well introduce her to me I probs don’t live far from ya

 

[bigdave17]

It's just the way he copes unfortunately. If something doesn't go his way, he's going to find a way to fault everything other than himself. For example, if he meets this Armenian girl and she doesn't maintain contact with him after the date cause she wasn't in to him, he'd have a range of excuses from "she wasn't my type to her personality was horrible."

Dave seems like a good fella in most aspects but the way he thinks is just out of place. My guess is he's never had a sexual relationship with an Armenian woman and gradually developed this imagination that they have better personalities and are better looking as a way to cope with his failures with white women. Being from Europe myself, Ik some Europeans in the U.S. who are unsuccessful with dating and use excuses very similar to these as a way to feel better.

This coping mechanism only seems to work but it builds up so much frustration inside...aka 1.6k posts in 10 months.

Armenian women were voted most beautiful in the world by a travelers magazine just recently

This is no bull****. There are multiple women in my family who are gorgeous with no makeup.

 

[bigdave17]

shes not that hot. shes looking like 30yo girl i dated. but she was mental

(but that girl i dated was less fat/slobby)

you're polish

Have fun with your women who are washed up and old looking by 35

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Armenian women were voted most beautiful in the world by a travelers magazine just recently

This is no bull****. There are multiple women in my family who are gorgeous with no makeup.

But you said yourself Armenian women don't prioritize looks in men. Your need to feel superior comes across as bitchy and unattractive.

 

[MrJack]

Armenian women were voted most beautiful in the world by a travelers magazine just recently

This is no bull****. There are multiple women in my family who are gorgeous with no makeup.

Ok even if this is true WHO CARES.

Your whole mindset goes against the entirety of this forum.

I think you’re just one of the cases that never learns over time. You neglect the reality in front of you.

I officially think nobody here can help you because you aren’t willing to help yourself

 

[sosousage]

Ok even if this is true WHO CARES.

Your whole mindset goes against the entirety of this forum.

I think you’re just one of the cases that never learns over time. You neglect the reality in front of you.

I officially think nobody here can help you because you aren’t willing to help yourself

his problem is that he cares too much about specific girl

but thats normal when you arent attracting enough girls