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My sister has a very beautiful Armenian friend in New Jersey/NY

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She is 28 or 29, just came to the country on a tourist visa but is staying around (I think working on getting a work visa). My sister said she is an art teacher, supposedly smart and very nice. Literally fits all my exact standards (face, body, height, ethnicity, even her mom is gorgeous)

What would you do if you were me? Here's the problem with the situation

- she lives in Jersey, so what are the odds she would want to move to Chicagoland suburbs for me? Zero chance I'm moving. My job situation is so phenomenal, I can't risk it

- even if she jumps on it and wants to be with me, how do I know she likes me for me and isn't just doing it for the green card and because I'm very successful? on the flipside, I'm like a 9-10/10 for Armenian male standards. There is a massive disparity between men and women in Armenia - the women are generally stunningly gorgeous while the men are mostly very ugly. A standard 7/10 white guy in Armenia would be considered a 10/10. Armenian women are also massively loyal and only want to be with Armenian men so the odds of her leaving me after we get married are probably pretty low

How hard do I want to jump on this? She is pretty much a 10/10 to me
 

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Are you 12? You haven't even seduced this woman yet and you're practically trying to imagine the appearance of your grandkids smh

I used to only hit on one girl at a time in middle school because i had no idea what I'd do if i hit on two and they both wanted to be my gf.

It sounds stupid in retrospect because what are the odds that out of two random girls they both want to get serious with you.

If that sounds stupid to you, that's what your post sounds like to me

Try going to meet her, getting her out on a date, ****ing her in the car right after. Then you evaluate her mental state, sex quality and personality to see if she's even half decent, and only afterwards get back to us to discuss how to get her to move to gotham city with you and become batgirl
 

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She is 28 or 29, just came to the country on a tourist visa but is staying around (I think working on getting a work visa). My sister said she is an art teacher, supposedly smart and very nice. Literally fits all my exact standards (face, body, height, ethnicity, even her mom is gorgeous)

What would you do if you were me? Here's the problem with the situation

- she lives in Jersey, so what are the odds she would want to move to Chicagoland suburbs for me? Zero chance I'm moving. My job situation is so phenomenal, I can't risk it

- even if she jumps on it and wants to be with me, how do I know she likes me for me and isn't just doing it for the green card and because I'm very successful? on the flipside, I'm like a 9-10/10 for Armenian male standards. There is a massive disparity between men and women in Armenia - the women are generally stunningly gorgeous while the men are mostly very ugly. A standard 7/10 white guy in Armenia would be considered a 10/10. Armenian women are also massively loyal and only want to be with Armenian men so the odds of her leaving me after we get married are probably pretty low

How hard do I want to jump on this? She is pretty much a 10/10 to me
Your idolizing females again. For now worry about the females who are into you. Don't even waste a thot on the rest.
 

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Your idolizing females again. For now worry about the females who are into you. Don't even waste a thot on the rest.
Will you stop repeating this same fuc-king bullsh-i-t in every thread?

I slept with 10-12 garbage women in 2015-2017. Did not help me one lick to get the women I wanted... not even slightly.

You know what happens when you fukk single moms and fat bitches? you get confidence with single moms and fat bitches. It doesn't magically make you believe you deserve a 9/10
 

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Will you stop repeating this same fuc-king bullsh-i-t in every thread?

I slept with 10-12 garbage women in 2015-2017. Did not help me one lick to get the women I wanted... not even slightly.

You know what happens when you fukk single moms and fat bitches? you get confidence with single moms and fat bitches. It doesn't magically make you believe you deserve a 9/10
Your not going to fvck one of them wasting all your time thinking about them and idolizing them not at all! Perhaps fvck one of their slightly less attractive friends and thatll get you in the door. Females are insanely competitive man.

Once you **** one of the hotter ones, you will be able to do others.

I'm glad you know that the problem is what you think you DESERVE. Your mindstate. One day you will be entitled to be the big bad wolf to all fo them...
 

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Your not going to fvck one of them wasting all your time thinking about them and idolizing them not at all! Perhaps fvck one of their slightly less attractive friends and thatll get you in the door. Females are insanely competitive man.
I don't have any situation like that where I can fukk a cute 6/10 26 year old and then meet her friend afterwards

I basically have to do things like online dating and cold approaching and go after the women I want. There is nothing more to it than that
 

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I don't have any situation like that where I can fukk a cute 6/10 26 year old and then meet her friend afterwards

I basically have to do things like online dating and cold approaching and go after the women I want. There is nothing more to it than that
In your sisters and family social circle you don't have some babes 1 or 2 notches down? That will get you ****ing in that circle. you gotta penetrate a circle. How you get in won't have to necessarily be the hottest one.
 
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You're not in Armenia anymore and I know that beach well. That's my old stomping ground.
Lots of Armenian women only want to date Armenian men...like vast majority

I've never seen a better looking Armenian man than me/my uncle/my dad in terms of the Armenian people I know and have met.

I'm really not saying this to brag. I watch Armenian TV shows and the male celebs there are so much uglier than the women. I don't understand why there is such a huge disparity. Not only are the men ugly but they lose hair at a shocking rate. Both my brother in laws are either totally bald or balding crazy hard. All the men on my father's side are NW7 also.

My sister is a 9/10 married to a 4/10. My other sister is a 7.5/10 married to a 2/10
 

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My sister is a 9/10 married to a 4/10. My other sister is a 7.5/10 married to a 2/10
You might consider that this means that Armenian women don't put much importance on looks.

And since looks seem to something you see as your best assets...

..they might not be so important to you.

So, what else do you got?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lots of Armenian women only want to date Armenian men...like vast majority

I've never seen a better looking Armenian man than me/my uncle/my dad in terms of the Armenian people I know and have met.

I'm really not saying this to brag. I watch Armenian TV shows and the male celebs there are so much uglier than the women. I don't understand why there is such a huge disparity. Not only are the men ugly but they lose hair at a shocking rate. Both my brother in laws are either totally bald or balding crazy hard. All the men on my father's side are NW7 also.

My sister is a 9/10 married to a 4/10. My other sister is a 7.5/10 married to a 2/10
Are those "ugly" husbands masculine and dominant? To some cultures that's the important thing.
 

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You might consider that this means that Armenian women don't put much importance on looks.
My 9/10 sister's husband is considered handsome by the people in our family circle. Armenian men are ugly and are judged on a very heavily curved scale. When I say he's a 4/10, I'm talking about your guys' crazy white people standards. If my sister kept holding out for a 9/10 Armenian guy, she might have been single forever. The amount of Armenian guys who have white people standards male model looks with a NW1 hairline are like 0.000000001%

All of our family and friends consider me to be a 9-10/10. I actually look very European and have great hair for being my ethnicity

When I say European, I have a normal nose, reasonable eyebrows and my facial features look very European. My 2/10 brother in law looks VERY heavily ethnic - huge nose, balding horribly, big forehead, bushy ass eyebrows, etc...

And since looks seem to something you see as your best assets...

..they might not be so important to you.

So, what else do you got?
- I make fantastic money/am excellent at managing finances
- I'm intelligent
- I'm very loyal/affectionate/loving but not weak or needy or clingy at all. I'm actually both affectionate yet very independant
- I'm great in bed
- I love kids

What else do I need to be?
 
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Go for it. Skype her and build attraction until you can visit her in person. I know people personally who moved across the country for significant others they interacted with online. Obviously if it goes well see how she feels about moving to you. Though you still have to do more on the local front online and in person. It won't hurt you to give this one a try.
 

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Go for it. Skype her and build attraction until you can visit her in person. I know people personally who moved across the country for significant others they interacted with online. Obviously if it goes well see how she feels about moving to you. Though you still have to do more on the local front online and in person. It won't hurt you to give this one a try.
she lives close to my sister, I can meet her next time I go out there
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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You're already playing house with a chick you haven't even met... Moving to the Chicago suburbs... white picket fence and the dog...

Might as well ask Kate Upton... lol
If she is not willing to move to Chicago at some point, then no point in my even meeting her
 

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You're already playing house with a chick you haven't even met... Moving to the Chicago suburbs... white picket fence and the dog...

Might as well ask Kate Upton... lol
Dead in the water. Maybe if started banging one of these "trash" chicks while he looks around he'll start attracting. He likes kids but doesn't like single moms, hmmm...

Anyway, you cant try to get a girlfriend, doesn't work. There are some of us who tried the exact same scenario. It will come across as looking "needy". You have to date interested chicks first, and go through the process.
 

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Dead in the water. Maybe if started banging one of these "trash" chicks while he looks around he'll start attracting. He likes kids but doesn't like single moms, hmmm...

Anyway, you cant try to get a girlfriend, doesn't work. There are some of us who tried the exact same scenario. It will come across as looking "needy". You have to date interested chicks first, and go through the process.
I just posted this at the top of this page and you won't stop so I'll repeat it again

Will you stop repeating this same fuc-king bullsh-i-t in every thread?

I slept with 10-12 garbage women in 2015-2017. Did not help me one lick to get the women I wanted... not even slightly.

You know what happens when you fukk single moms and fat bitches? you get confidence with single moms and fat bitches. It doesn't magically make you believe you deserve a 9/10

And the only guys who want to date single moms are fukking losers. Yea let me volunteer to take care of another man's child
 

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You seriously need a real life mentor to teach you the ropes. Don't be afraid to approach one and ask, he'll refuse, but keep at it until he gets fed up and takes you under his wing.

Find one.
 
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