"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My sister got engaged

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My sister got engaged yesterday - we havent spoken for about a year.

She calls me to tell me she got engaged , I said congratulations , she said thanks

Hang up

Not a single how are you ? but nice of her to tell me

Slight issue
She is 25 , has only been in her first job for 6 months and her "fiance" has no qualifications and lives off his family cash , which isnt as much as they think it is

Am I an ass for not exactly being excited about this ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what you ahve to ask yourself is are you 2 even close to be anything? serious me and my brother don't talk with each other even when we see each other we stay each on his corner, we only talk together if its a 3rd part talking with both if not... meh.

also you care? you miss talking with her or something? fights because her boyfriends? she could only tells you because your mom told her doing so too.

its up to you anyway the why, you are the one present on everything.
 
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YAboi said:
no but you might be one for not speaking to your own flesh and blood for a year
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not gonna argue with that , but i have my own reasons - chased her around trying to be friendly and got it shoved in my face because her attitude just stank , used to make international calls to say hi then its "sorry I'm busy having my hair done cant talk" I mean wtf
 
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Alvafe said:
what you ahve to ask yourself is are you 2 even close to be anything? serious me and my brother don't talk with each other even when we see each other we stay each on his corner, we only talk together if its a 3rd part talking with both if not... meh.

also you care? you miss talking with her or something? fights because her boyfriends? she could only tells you because your mom told her doing so too.

its up to you anyway the why, you are the one present on everything.
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I think my parents told her to tell me
I tried to be a good brother too her but after she insulted my career I just don't care anymore
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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countwoofoolah said:
I think my parents told her to tell me
I tried to be a good brother too her but after she insulted my career I just don't care anymore
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Don't feel bad, I'm in a similar situation with one of my sisters. In a nut shell, I can't stand the b-tch for a number of reasons. Don't let anyone shame you for this, they haven't a clue what your personal life is like with your family.

Not everyone has a made-for-TV family life.
 
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countwoofoolah said:
I think my parents told her to tell me
I tried to be a good brother too her but after she insulted my career I just don't care anymore
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that is all to it, is not your problem you can live without it so meh
 
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