My sis is dating a waaay older dude

[Roly]

Hey guys what would you think if you have a 21 year old sister or someone whose a sisterly figure to you dating a 47 year old man? I come from a conservative family so there totally against it. Personally I don't really have a problem with the age thing, what really matters most is the guys personality and if he has his **** together. Thats what really counts. But then again, I really have to question this guys motives, I mean can't he find someone his own age? Whats your opinion on this?

 

[Shiftkey]

I hope I can still pull chicks that age when I'm 47

 

[SnakeCharmer]

I have a question that will answer your question. Let's say you are a 47 year old man, that had the seduction skills to pick up a nice 21 year old woman.

Why would you pick up a woman your own age? Some men settle for what they can get. Seductionists (like the guy your sis is seeing) take what they want. Just a thought.

 

[Holland]

21 seems fair. It's still her own choice.
What I find rather pathetic and see from time to time is AFC males in their twenties hitting on 16yo girls. Now that's some sick **** mate :nono:

 

[Skel]

Id kick his ass

 

[CGE333]

The 47 yr. old either has a lot of money, a big schlong, or both. For your sake I hope he has a lot of money

 

[djbr]

Damn I wish.

My sister just dates losers.

 

[sparky0000]

21 seems fair. It's still her own choice.
What I find rather pathetic and see from time to time is AFC males in their twenties hitting on 16yo girls. Now that's some sick **** mate :nono:

what is the big deal if you are in holland? don't all horny old dutch men try to pickup girls like that? or is it just when they are visiting the baltic states?

 

[DJDamage]

Don't get involved. Your sister is an adult and you are not her parents. If you want them to be closer together then you will do so by creating a rift and have her justify her attraction to him.

In all likelyhood she is attracted to him because the men her own age range are not yet established (have a career, their own place, nice car, mature).

At 21 years old she can meet a new guy tomorow and drop him. What difference would that make if it's a 40 year old's d1ck or 20's d1ck fvcking your sister?? she is still getting fvcked either way and there is nothing predatory about it.

 

[TheVirtualMind]

Your sis is dating ER!C L!VE? You should be thankful it's someone from sosuave...

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Roy I believe I saw your sister leaving the club with a group of black men. :crackup:

 

[Roly]

Roy I believe I saw your sister leaving the club with a group of black men. :crackup:

Thats really funny man and pretty ironic too. Cause this dude who she is seeing happens to be black.

 

[sparky0000]

Word on the street is that this is the man.

 

[WaterTiger]

Personally I find it a little creepy. But it's her life. The more you fight it, the more she'll lock into that "Romeo & Juliet" crap and stay with him.

At 47 he won't be so quick to put up with her youthful foolishness either. But maybe that's why she likes him.

 

[semperfkemall]

sister has issues. Daddy issues. imo. This is not natural. but theres nothing you can really do about it.

Can't blame a guy for wanting to hit up a 21 year old, but theres some fvcked up sh1t going on in her head. Hope it works out.

 

[Roly]

sister has issues. Daddy issues. imo. This is not natural. but theres nothing you can really do about it.

Can't blame a guy for wanting to hit up a 21 year old, but theres some fvcked up sh1t going on in her head. Hope it works out.

Do you really think so? But what about chicks like Catherine Zeta Jones?? Do you think they have daddy issues or just dating a cool dude? Personally it's not the age thing that bothers me.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Your sis is dating ER!C L!VE? You should be thankful it's someone from sosuave...

lol I just saw this today. I was in Costa Rica banging a 19yo Penolope Cruz look alike when you posted that. :cheer:

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Do you really think so? But what about chicks like Catherine Zeta Jones?? Do you think they have daddy issues or just dating a cool dude? Personally it's not the age thing that bothers me.

It is not the age thing that bothers you? What is it? Then what is it that bothers you and, specially your "conservative" family? Is it the fact that he is black? Can you honestly say that we, meaning, you, your family, I, and everyone else, doesn't notice? How different is he from your family? Just food for thought.

 

[Roly]

Okay heres background info for the guy

The guy is 47 years old like I said. He's freakin divorce and has three freakin kids that he has to pay for. He's also a registered nurse meaning he's only making a good 40 to 50 grand a year. It would have been a different story if he was single, but quite frankly, I dont think he can bring stability if he starts a relationship with my sister.

 

[jmm854]

Let's see. I'm 21. My dad's 47. Wow she really knows how to pick em.

She probably isn't on his level of maturity so I'm guessing he's more on hers. She's looking for a change? A way to be different?

Act supportive. It won't last. The thought of marrying a man that she can't grow old with, because by the time she's sixty, he'll more than likely be six feet under, will probably be their demise. The thought of having children with a man who might need a wheelchair to make it to their children's highschool graduation. This is one case where rationality has to eventually prevail.