"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Senior Year Journal

Bryce556

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Alright so this is my journal on the next year of highschool that im going into. So far i have made some improvment since finding this forum. ill be posting here my status towards my goals and what ive been doing. Alright so so far I have been working out and praticeing my game. I'll post evey so often somthing happens

Current Stats:

Weight: 140lbs and about 11-13% bodyfat
Hight: 5'6"
Status:Single
Never had a Girlfriend
Never Been Kissed
Not a good rep with people at shool, think im weird/creepy, and nerdy.
Sort of depressed and annoyed at my lack of sucess now



My Goals by the end of the school year:

Be more musculer
Be cool
Be liked
Have been laid or gotten a girlfriend
Have Been kissed
BE HAPPY and content
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Snow Plowman

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Well if your willing to go out and take the lumps, face the obstacles, and face your fears then you'll get there for sure.

You're best bet is to start going out approaching women from now, search a few of my High school posts to get an idea of what I used to do back in High school. (ahh those were the days)

I basically turned from the unknown to the kid everyone wanted to meet. Like seriously first two years of high school I could've lied to people and said I just transfered and they would believe me. Freshmen year I didn't even go to lunch I'd help staple papers instead. :crackup:

Talk about anti social.
 

jrodbendi

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I thought I was reading my own profile there for a second. This is crazy.
I'm going into senior year of hs, am 5'6" (not 140 though), never had a gf, never kissed a girl.

Good luck man. Where have you been going over the summer for approaches?
I've tried the mall, and the Santa Monica Promenade (bunch of shops, vendors, people walking around).
 

petenpete

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well basically you just need to get out more...
I don't know how often you hang out with the opposite sex but for me to be more successful i just needed to "get out and mingle""

I was a sophmore who had never been kissed and once i started to go partys i would just talk to girls that i somewhat knew. - If you both have a few drinks in you its really easy to just get close by dancing to a song or whatever and start making out.

Idk how good looking you are but... for me all i had to do was establish a base conversation and let it go from there -- after a few days of talking at school with them - i would read the signs and call them to hang out over the weekends. Pretty soon by the end of senior year i already went out with some of the top girls at my school and had some good times to i might add

start with girls in your classes or someone you see on a daily bases so its not awkward and make sure you stay in your league.
 

Bryce556

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So heres an update, right now it is monday augest 20th, and is about 3 weeks till school starts, im hitting the gym everyday like ive been doing for a while, im training harder then ever really pushing myself and getting my diet sorted out. ive been talking on facebook to lots of girls from my school i never really talked to before, even though im not really "into" them its about getting known as haveing changed right? well thats what im up to so far so for the next 3 weeks ill be working out like crasy and trying to gain more muscle before school and increaseing some rapport on facebook.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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