"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the ever so loved high 5...its not really secret but yea. You can NEVER go wrong when giving 5 to a chick. They also lighten chicks up and put smiles on their faces(at least in my experiences). If a girl wont give you 5, shes a cold hearted b*tch, move on. Yea yea yea, high 5s RAWK!.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i see hugs and high fives as basic greetings. if you cant think of something good really fast, just using 5's as a fallback is pretty good.
 

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Originally posted by chill
i see hugs and high fives as basic greetings. if you cant think of something good really fast, just using 5's as a fallback is pretty good.
Im just gonna stop trying to help the noobs, evidently they know more than I.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
the ever so loved high 5...its not really secret but yea. You can NEVER go wrong when giving 5 to a chick. They also lighten chicks up and put smiles on their faces(at least in my experiences). If a girl wont give you 5, shes a cold hearted b*tch, move on. Yea yea yea, high 5s RAWK!.
Yeah, true. Another good one, is to say "hello" when you see her or "bye" to her before you leave. If she reacts positively to either one, she's probably interested. If she reacts negatively, next her.

Keep it up, and eventually you will progress to a handshake-opener. Once you're a true Don Juan, go for a very advanced closing technique known as the hug-close. It's sure to make them go wild for you!
 

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Re: Re: My secret weapon...

Originally posted by MetalFortress
Yeah, true. Another good one, is to say "hello" when you see her or "bye" to her before you leave. If she reacts positively to either one, she's probably interested. If she reacts negatively, next her.

Keep it up, and eventually you will progress to a handshake-opener. Once you're a true Don Juan, go for a very advanced closing technique known as the hug-close. It's sure to make them go wild for you!
Im glad youre so intelligent. Its not an opener wise guy. Good thing you know what your talking about.:rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Patience is probably a Don Juan's most valuable weapon, outside of the potential in his pants.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I'm not trying to say it's an opener, I'm trying to say it's a stupid tip! Come on, a high five is your SECRET WEAPON? Talk about taking a knife into a gunfight.
Sarcasim...
 

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oak raider... dude have you learned anything? sorry, but your too hard wired into nexting. there's other ****, but, nexting is one of em.

High fives are awesome, especially when your just friends;)

You can pull it off, but there are girls out there that won't accept it, but are still highly intelligent, funny, fun, witty, and hard working babes out there that I love to hunt for that would find a high five insulting to their intelligence. Nevermind they seem boring at first but a high-five is an excellent opener, she can ignore you.

You've got to remember that these girls don't want a guy who bounces off the walls after seeing complete strangers, or who feels like in a girls world screaming just for the sake of screaming. Sometimes you have to appeal to higher intellects and take the world with a pinch of salt. Don't just be, you have to flow. You have to scout the girl for a few seconds, thats my 3 sec rule. than you can start approaching, this sends tingles down a lot a girls legs if you can keep the eye contact. then just imagining high fiving her:p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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