"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the ever so loved high 5...its not really secret but yea. You can NEVER go wrong when giving 5 to a chick. They also lighten chicks up and put smiles on their faces(at least in my experiences). If a girl wont give you 5, shes a cold hearted b*tch, move on. Yea yea yea, high 5s RAWK!.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i see hugs and high fives as basic greetings. if you cant think of something good really fast, just using 5's as a fallback is pretty good.
 

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Originally posted by chill
i see hugs and high fives as basic greetings. if you cant think of something good really fast, just using 5's as a fallback is pretty good.
Im just gonna stop trying to help the noobs, evidently they know more than I.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
the ever so loved high 5...its not really secret but yea. You can NEVER go wrong when giving 5 to a chick. They also lighten chicks up and put smiles on their faces(at least in my experiences). If a girl wont give you 5, shes a cold hearted b*tch, move on. Yea yea yea, high 5s RAWK!.
Yeah, true. Another good one, is to say "hello" when you see her or "bye" to her before you leave. If she reacts positively to either one, she's probably interested. If she reacts negatively, next her.

Keep it up, and eventually you will progress to a handshake-opener. Once you're a true Don Juan, go for a very advanced closing technique known as the hug-close. It's sure to make them go wild for you!
 

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Re: Re: My secret weapon...

Originally posted by MetalFortress
Yeah, true. Another good one, is to say "hello" when you see her or "bye" to her before you leave. If she reacts positively to either one, she's probably interested. If she reacts negatively, next her.

Keep it up, and eventually you will progress to a handshake-opener. Once you're a true Don Juan, go for a very advanced closing technique known as the hug-close. It's sure to make them go wild for you!
Im glad youre so intelligent. Its not an opener wise guy. Good thing you know what your talking about.:rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Patience is probably a Don Juan's most valuable weapon, outside of the potential in his pants.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I'm not trying to say it's an opener, I'm trying to say it's a stupid tip! Come on, a high five is your SECRET WEAPON? Talk about taking a knife into a gunfight.
Sarcasim...
 

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oak raider... dude have you learned anything? sorry, but your too hard wired into nexting. there's other ****, but, nexting is one of em.

High fives are awesome, especially when your just friends;)

You can pull it off, but there are girls out there that won't accept it, but are still highly intelligent, funny, fun, witty, and hard working babes out there that I love to hunt for that would find a high five insulting to their intelligence. Nevermind they seem boring at first but a high-five is an excellent opener, she can ignore you.

You've got to remember that these girls don't want a guy who bounces off the walls after seeing complete strangers, or who feels like in a girls world screaming just for the sake of screaming. Sometimes you have to appeal to higher intellects and take the world with a pinch of salt. Don't just be, you have to flow. You have to scout the girl for a few seconds, thats my 3 sec rule. than you can start approaching, this sends tingles down a lot a girls legs if you can keep the eye contact. then just imagining high fiving her:p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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