My Secret To Attracting and Keeping A Woman

[Vantagepoint34]

You're friends are still there... Assimilating culture of romans domination. Haha.

 

[corrector]

Hey guys, been a while. Used to be a very active member of this forum and been thinking a lot lately since i've been out of "the game" and focusing on my career / financial life now.

Background:
Was a virgin until 22, after finding this forum I applied everything I learned and had sex with over 150 woman in 4 year period from Online Dating. I've been in all different type of situations, some good, some bad, some in-between.

You are making some claims on here and so far have not said anything that's a "secret" but are painfully obvious catch-22s all over the place. Did you start Online Dating before going on this site or after? Maybe you just have solid looks and you are able to pull easier online because more ladies are attracted to your profile pic and didn't do the online thing before. You can clean house if you have the right profile pics.

My Secret:
1. Make enough money to provide for her and a possible family, don't let money become an issue.

This is the first catch-22. Not everyone has a well paying job or can just get money out of nowhere. So, if you don't have money you can't succeed with women that well. How is that a secret? A viable secret would be "How do you make enough money, esp. if the odds are against you?"

2. Be in your own world and invite her into your world, but be clear you can walk away and find another woman at anytime.

Only works if you have options. Anyone knows that. You have a catch-22 problem again if you don't have options or can't get other options.
A viable secret would be "how do you get options".

3. Stand up for yourself, but don't put yourself in bad situations where you are needed to fight (If it comes down to it, it comes down to it, but keep a look out on woman who egg you on, they are crazy and drama causing short and long term)

If you have options and can just walk away then problem solved. If you don't have options and this is an "incel-break" scenario then people latch on to anything they can get if it beats being lonely and sexless.

4. Don't be needy

That's solved if you have lots of options.

5. Take risks, in the right areas, go hang gliding, surfing, be a fun person to be around

Been there done that. You have fun by yourself! Women are still alien.

So, what are the secrets? What online dating site did you use? What profile did you use to attract the women that others can cut and paste? Did the ladies contact you first or did you contact them first? Did you spam send emails? Did you ever struggle meeting anyone from online dating or have a learning curve or were you an instant success from the get-go?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You are making some claims on here and so far have not said anything that's a "secret" but are painfully obvious catch-22s all over the place. Did you start Online Dating before going on this site or after? Maybe you just have solid looks and you are able to pull easier online because more ladies are attracted to your profile pic and didn't do the online thing before. You can clean house if you have the right profile pics.



This is the first catch-22. Not everyone has a well paying job or can just get money out of nowhere. So, if you don't have money you can't succeed with women that well. How is that a secret? A viable secret would be "How do you make enough money, esp. if the odds are against you?"



Only works if you have options. Anyone knows that. You have a catch-22 problem again if you don't have options or can't get other options.
A viable secret would be "how do you get options".



If you have options and can just walk away then problem solved. If you don't have options and this is an "incel-break" scenario then people latch on to anything they can get if it beats being lonely and sexless.



That's solved if you have lots of options.




Been there done that. You have fun by yourself! Women are still alien.

So, what are the secrets? What online dating site did you use? What profile did you use to attract the women that others can cut and paste? Did the ladies contact you first or did you contact them first? Did you spam send emails? Did you ever struggle meeting anyone from online dating or have a learning curve or were you an instant success from the get-go?

There's bunches of guys without alot of money plus women. And there are bunches of guys with decent money who don't spend on women who pull women.

 

[zekko]

Accept people will cheat, men will cheat woman will cheat grab your balls and move on

Accept that people will cheat!? Sounds like advice on how to get cucked. Yes, it's possible a girl might cheat, but it's not a foregone conclusion.

There are consequences to behavior, and that's something I won't tolerate, it's a dealbreaker. A guy's got to have some standards, otherwise what's the point? I could pair up with the town bike if I want to get cheated on.