"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pg_lost

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Please anyone out there that has seen the 2008 version of this movie.
Where do I start. Never has a movie made me angrier in my life. In the AFC days I would have called this movie touching, now, I want to barf a little just typing that in. Please watch it and add to this post.

I will start: As sassy and crazy as that b!tch in the movie seems, its real people. I had a gf that was just like that, and she was hot, so I wussed out and was totally a fvcking douche just for her, kinda like the tool in this movie was...She was such a b!tch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow what a sick disgusting movie.

I only watched the trailer just now and the first line of dialogue was basically an introductory course to oneitis.

And the rest of the trailer was a shameful glamorization of Bipolar Disorder and the mild form of Borderline Personality Disorder.

I too can imagine being the AFC that might watch such a movie and without being educated view what I'm seeing onscreen as a goofy fun girl that any man would love to have but nope...

What we were seeing is a train wreck of drama and pain.
 

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Its about this girl whos a total B!tch. This guy meets her, falls in love with her right away. Shes an alcoholic. Ruins his school, ruins his future of working for this big company, and treats him like sh!t. All of a sudden, she decides to take a break from him, so she comes up with the idea of writing letters so they can read it in a years time and bury it in this place under the tree. So after the one year break is over, they will meet on a specific day and read the letters to each other. The tree gets hit by lightning, so is broken. The AFC guy buys a new tree for the park identical to that one and reburies it so she can see where the letter is buried! ON the specific day, the guy shows up, she doesnt. And he still wants her. They somehow meet up again, and he she wants him finally, and he takes her back, and its suppose to be a happy ending. We find out the reason why she was such a b!tch: Her fIence she was with before this guy ended his own life, so she was so disturbed. THe only reason she goes out with the afc in the movie is cause he looked liked her ex fience, and we find out throughout the movie why she made him do such weird things, it was because her fience used to do them. So she basically used him. And that was the moral of the story, and it was suppose to be a happy ending. W T F
 

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pg_lost said:
Its about this girl whos a total B!tch. This guy meets her, falls in love with her right away. Shes an alcoholic. Ruins his school, ruins his future of working for this big company, and treats him like sh!t. All of a sudden, she decides to take a break from him, so she comes up with the idea of writing letters so they can read it in a years time and bury it in this place under the tree. So after the one year break is over, they will meet on a specific day and read the letters to each other. The tree gets hit by lightning, so is broken. The AFC guy buys a new tree for the park identical to that one and reburies it so she can see where the letter is buried! ON the specific day, the guy shows up, she doesnt. And he still wants her. They somehow meet up again, and he she wants him finally, and he takes her back, and its suppose to be a happy ending. We find out the reason why she was such a b!tch: Her fIence she was with before this guy ended his own life, so she was so disturbed. THe only reason she goes out with the afc in the movie is cause he looked liked her ex fience, and we find out throughout the movie why she made him do such weird things, it was because her fience used to do them. So she basically used him. And that was the moral of the story, and it was suppose to be a happy ending. W T F




Fvck watching that then. Sounds disturbing :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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