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Master Don Juan
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As many of you may already know, our fellow Don Juan Speer (who posts under the username of "Speer Method") announced several weeks ago that he wil be hosting a free Pickup seminar in New York City during the 15th of July. Not living to far away from the location of where the seminar was hosted, I decided to make my way to see what this guy was all about.
Below is a detailed account of what I saw there though my very own eyes...
Due to certain circumstances beyond my control, I had the great misfortune of arriving somewhat late to the actual seminar. Thankfully, I was lucky to arrive not during the middle of the an important talk or valid point, but during one of the breaks. I immedietly saw Speer himself in the hallway & introduced myself to him. He was very welcoming and approachable. I only knew what he looked like as a result of viewing the avatar picture he posted on his forum account. In all honestly, I thought it was Matador's picture the first time I looked at it... hahaha
Within five minutes, the talk started once again. I could immedietly feel his immense stage presense & charmisma. It was an experience in and of itself, since this was the first time I attended a PUA seminar of any kind (mainly for the fact that I'm still an 18 year old kid who doesn't have the money for all the typical dating industry seminars which go for about $1000 each). I also found it interesting that I was by far the youngest dude in the entire seminar. The majority of attendees were in their late 20s and early 30s, there was even one African dude who was about fifty years old! Makes you feel quite lucky knowning all this at such a young age know doesn't it?...
So back to the talk... Speer had a the whole S.P.E.E.R. Method down to what each letter ment in the greater context of the game & attracting women. Interestingly enough, he broke off from a lot of other Pickup Gurus in the fact that he tried to teach us (within a matter of less than 45 minutes) a few very important key concepts that would permeate into all aspects of our lives. Specifically, how to diffuse any kind of high intensity situation in which you are percieved as the "bad guy" or the cause of it. He taught us how to quickly ensure the fact that the other person doesn't blow up in your face even if you truly are at fault. If only I had known this valuable skill just one month earlier, I would probably still be in a relationship with my prom date :yes:
The next order of business was to to go certain Pickup techniques that we as up-and-coming players in the game should be on the lookout for. Specifically, certain tactics that may land us in a sexual harassment suite if the b1tch was so inclined... Especially, various RSD (Real Social Dynamics) techniques such as the "infamous" claw that are quite risky if not executed correctly. Speer knows about all these because he himself was quite active in the Seduction Community - working with Mystery's Venusian Arts, working with Tyler Durden's Real Social Dynamics, spending extensive amounts of time in Project Miami (with Mystery, Matador and the rest of the crew). All in all, it seems like he has been all over the map in terms of the PUA scene. He has also caught the eye of the "Godfather of Pickup" aka Ross Jeffries, which in turn turned into an ongoing feud as to who is better with women. Being a person who has an deep interest in following the politics of the Seduction Community, to an outside observer like me, it seems that our man Ross Jeffries (Paul Ross) seems to strike up viscuous feuds with whomever he deems as invading his territory in terms of this vast segment of the self-help industry. Jeffries has been known to strike up feuds with the biggest names in the scene such as David DeAngelo & Mystery.
The Free Seminar was wrapped up by an extensive Q&A session in which he gladly took each and every question from the audience. There were wide-ranging questions encompassing all aspects from the game ranging from what to do when you're percieved as a playa by the entire female staff at your workplace and how to maintain a relationship with a girl who lives a few hours away from you.
To conclude, this free seminar exceeded all of my expectations! It was unfortunate to see that I was the only one from SoSuave who managed to make the journey (considering the fact that many of us are from the New York City area). But all in all, Speer performance at the seminar definetly shattered any negative preconcieved notions that I held before actually meeting him in person. Solely from glancing over his few posts on this site of ours, he seemed like a braggart who was only here for the sole purpose of peddling his own programs... But thankfully, my misconcieved perception was altered after witnessing the depths of his knowledge in terms of the game and our entire world in general.
For a bit more proof of game, his girlfriend was actually there taping the entire seminar to put on Youtube in the near future (can't wait to see it! ;-). And yes, his girl is definetly a headturner! She's a twenty-something blonde, Eastern European looking chick with curves to die for. And yes, Speer is definetly the real deal who sets himself apart from the many other Pickup "Gurus" who are only in it to make money...
Which other Pickup Artist have you heard that has ever given a Free Seminar?!?!
(He was also nice enough to give each and every one of us his email and personal cell phone number)
Final words -----> It Fvckin Rocked!
Below is a detailed account of what I saw there though my very own eyes...
Due to certain circumstances beyond my control, I had the great misfortune of arriving somewhat late to the actual seminar. Thankfully, I was lucky to arrive not during the middle of the an important talk or valid point, but during one of the breaks. I immedietly saw Speer himself in the hallway & introduced myself to him. He was very welcoming and approachable. I only knew what he looked like as a result of viewing the avatar picture he posted on his forum account. In all honestly, I thought it was Matador's picture the first time I looked at it... hahaha
Within five minutes, the talk started once again. I could immedietly feel his immense stage presense & charmisma. It was an experience in and of itself, since this was the first time I attended a PUA seminar of any kind (mainly for the fact that I'm still an 18 year old kid who doesn't have the money for all the typical dating industry seminars which go for about $1000 each). I also found it interesting that I was by far the youngest dude in the entire seminar. The majority of attendees were in their late 20s and early 30s, there was even one African dude who was about fifty years old! Makes you feel quite lucky knowning all this at such a young age know doesn't it?...
So back to the talk... Speer had a the whole S.P.E.E.R. Method down to what each letter ment in the greater context of the game & attracting women. Interestingly enough, he broke off from a lot of other Pickup Gurus in the fact that he tried to teach us (within a matter of less than 45 minutes) a few very important key concepts that would permeate into all aspects of our lives. Specifically, how to diffuse any kind of high intensity situation in which you are percieved as the "bad guy" or the cause of it. He taught us how to quickly ensure the fact that the other person doesn't blow up in your face even if you truly are at fault. If only I had known this valuable skill just one month earlier, I would probably still be in a relationship with my prom date :yes:
The next order of business was to to go certain Pickup techniques that we as up-and-coming players in the game should be on the lookout for. Specifically, certain tactics that may land us in a sexual harassment suite if the b1tch was so inclined... Especially, various RSD (Real Social Dynamics) techniques such as the "infamous" claw that are quite risky if not executed correctly. Speer knows about all these because he himself was quite active in the Seduction Community - working with Mystery's Venusian Arts, working with Tyler Durden's Real Social Dynamics, spending extensive amounts of time in Project Miami (with Mystery, Matador and the rest of the crew). All in all, it seems like he has been all over the map in terms of the PUA scene. He has also caught the eye of the "Godfather of Pickup" aka Ross Jeffries, which in turn turned into an ongoing feud as to who is better with women. Being a person who has an deep interest in following the politics of the Seduction Community, to an outside observer like me, it seems that our man Ross Jeffries (Paul Ross) seems to strike up viscuous feuds with whomever he deems as invading his territory in terms of this vast segment of the self-help industry. Jeffries has been known to strike up feuds with the biggest names in the scene such as David DeAngelo & Mystery.
The Free Seminar was wrapped up by an extensive Q&A session in which he gladly took each and every question from the audience. There were wide-ranging questions encompassing all aspects from the game ranging from what to do when you're percieved as a playa by the entire female staff at your workplace and how to maintain a relationship with a girl who lives a few hours away from you.
To conclude, this free seminar exceeded all of my expectations! It was unfortunate to see that I was the only one from SoSuave who managed to make the journey (considering the fact that many of us are from the New York City area). But all in all, Speer performance at the seminar definetly shattered any negative preconcieved notions that I held before actually meeting him in person. Solely from glancing over his few posts on this site of ours, he seemed like a braggart who was only here for the sole purpose of peddling his own programs... But thankfully, my misconcieved perception was altered after witnessing the depths of his knowledge in terms of the game and our entire world in general.
For a bit more proof of game, his girlfriend was actually there taping the entire seminar to put on Youtube in the near future (can't wait to see it! ;-). And yes, his girl is definetly a headturner! She's a twenty-something blonde, Eastern European looking chick with curves to die for. And yes, Speer is definetly the real deal who sets himself apart from the many other Pickup "Gurus" who are only in it to make money...
Which other Pickup Artist have you heard that has ever given a Free Seminar?!?!
(He was also nice enough to give each and every one of us his email and personal cell phone number)
Final words -----> It Fvckin Rocked!