"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My return to the game : FR

So pimp its scary

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I've been off the forums for a good long time... not counting an occasion or two where I came to cure the boredom of the moment. I had spent the better part of the year concentrating on work, and in creating my business for myself.

So, suffice it to say, concentrating on my professional life has held me back in the game department. And lately the few times that I have gone out, I seem to have lost my balls and became quite the choke artist.

Then I met a girl that worked on the jobsite I'm at, I live within a 5 min walk from this place, so on occasion I would invite some coworkers to my place over lunch... and she would come over, to keep the story short, I knew she was playing games... and for some reason I willingly allowed myself to play into these games. In the frustration that ended the weekend I got home, hopped in the shower and left. Ended up walking past a couple girls talking next to a truck, and a moment of zen comes over me... It's like a part of me left my body for a moment and was watching myself do the talking.

As she walks past all I hear is part of what she says '... plus I don't mind getting dirty'
She caught my eye instant, and before I could think up anything to say the words shot out 'Serious?! A cute girly girl that doesn't mind getting dirty, throw in some backrubs and you're like the perfect woman.'
'Oh ya' she says.
'Unless you plan to prove me wrong that is'
'Why would I do that?'
'Maybe you're not as friendly as you seem.'
Her friend steps in smiling 'no she's definately that friendly'
Then I introduce myself and ask if I can borrow their friend for the moment, and got the number.

So then on sunday I give her a call to ask her to hang out, next thing I know it's about 5 in the morning and I got 2 hours to get ready for work... I've never lost that much time in conversation before, when only the day before I had been falling for this girl that had so clearly been playing games...

Thanks for reading, Just remember these types of situations can happen in a moment... and I honestly had to hold back a smile because I for some reason just got so on the ball within a moment that I'm still thinking 'and I came up with this shyt on the spot??'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wait wait.....so the girl you were talking to and that went to your place was playing games with you which means she was being a **** tease right. Now she was talking to her friend as you passed by and you started up a conversation right.. that is when you got her number and talked to her till 5(any phone sex?) or am I complete wrong and this was another person becasue the way you worded it it felt like she was talking to her friend and somehow you got her number...clarify please :)
 

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Ya, there was the c0ck tease, even tho she still had put out... was just playing mind games, and in frustration I went for a walk after returning home.

I approached 3 girls, but I made my intent on the one target... I only talked to one of the others to step away with the target for a moment.

No, no phone sex... just one of those cases of deep and wide rapport, it's very unusual to have that much in common with someone... I mean everything like where we were from, similar goals, similar dreams, similar sense of humour. Was just an example of getting lost in conversation.
 
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