"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My return to the game : FR

So pimp its scary

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I've been off the forums for a good long time... not counting an occasion or two where I came to cure the boredom of the moment. I had spent the better part of the year concentrating on work, and in creating my business for myself.

So, suffice it to say, concentrating on my professional life has held me back in the game department. And lately the few times that I have gone out, I seem to have lost my balls and became quite the choke artist.

Then I met a girl that worked on the jobsite I'm at, I live within a 5 min walk from this place, so on occasion I would invite some coworkers to my place over lunch... and she would come over, to keep the story short, I knew she was playing games... and for some reason I willingly allowed myself to play into these games. In the frustration that ended the weekend I got home, hopped in the shower and left. Ended up walking past a couple girls talking next to a truck, and a moment of zen comes over me... It's like a part of me left my body for a moment and was watching myself do the talking.

As she walks past all I hear is part of what she says '... plus I don't mind getting dirty'
She caught my eye instant, and before I could think up anything to say the words shot out 'Serious?! A cute girly girl that doesn't mind getting dirty, throw in some backrubs and you're like the perfect woman.'
'Oh ya' she says.
'Unless you plan to prove me wrong that is'
'Why would I do that?'
'Maybe you're not as friendly as you seem.'
Her friend steps in smiling 'no she's definately that friendly'
Then I introduce myself and ask if I can borrow their friend for the moment, and got the number.

So then on sunday I give her a call to ask her to hang out, next thing I know it's about 5 in the morning and I got 2 hours to get ready for work... I've never lost that much time in conversation before, when only the day before I had been falling for this girl that had so clearly been playing games...

Thanks for reading, Just remember these types of situations can happen in a moment... and I honestly had to hold back a smile because I for some reason just got so on the ball within a moment that I'm still thinking 'and I came up with this shyt on the spot??'
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wait wait.....so the girl you were talking to and that went to your place was playing games with you which means she was being a **** tease right. Now she was talking to her friend as you passed by and you started up a conversation right.. that is when you got her number and talked to her till 5(any phone sex?) or am I complete wrong and this was another person becasue the way you worded it it felt like she was talking to her friend and somehow you got her number...clarify please :)
 

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Ya, there was the c0ck tease, even tho she still had put out... was just playing mind games, and in frustration I went for a walk after returning home.

I approached 3 girls, but I made my intent on the one target... I only talked to one of the others to step away with the target for a moment.

No, no phone sex... just one of those cases of deep and wide rapport, it's very unusual to have that much in common with someone... I mean everything like where we were from, similar goals, similar dreams, similar sense of humour. Was just an example of getting lost in conversation.
 
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