"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My results after 6 years on POF

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My review of 6 years on POF

Just something I thought I'd write to enlighten you about my experiences on POF. I joined there in 2008, and have had some success with women on there, but I must conclude its not a great place for meeting women with what Doc love refers to as flexibility, integrity and honesty. Basically its full of women with personal, mental and possibly medical issues.

Here are some examples;

Met girl A - . Met for coffee in Manchester, and turned out she was a Lithuanian gang member.

Met girl b - Met her online March 2010. Deep rooted daddy issues, complete control freak, eventually cost me £36k. 3 kiddies

Met girl c - Early 2012. Hadn't had sex in 3 years, further daddy issues, no job, lived on benefits, no career/ambitions whatsoever. 1 kiddy

Met girl D - April 2012. Older than she claimed on her profile, didn't find out until 2 months in she was still married. 2 kiddies

Met girl E - August 2012. Again, no job, daddy issues, massive medical problems and no desire to progress in life. Massively abused by long term ex who was alcoholic. Equated sex to love and Equated 2 nights a week at a night course to being self employed. I kiddie

Met girl F - May 2013. Talking/sleeping with 2 other guys behind my back. 3 kiddies

Met girl G - June 2013. Seemed promising but eventually rejoined the site and began
speaking to people behind my back

Met girl H - September 2013. Another control/power hungry girl, huge baggage issues, raped by father as a child, alcoholic and drank pints of vodka on weeknights. Eventually got back with ex from 10 years ago after he contacted her. 1 kiddie and hideous ingrown hair scars on the pvssy


A sorted of lovely elegable women for you guys1
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah that's right, but they all seem to want to snare me into a relationship so some of the girls mentioned I was with for some conssiderable time
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hyper2010 said:
Met girl H - September 2013. Another control/power hungry girl, huge baggage issues, raped by father as a child, alcoholic and drank pints of vodka on weeknights. Eventually got back with ex from 10 years ago after he contacted her. 1 kiddie and hideous ingrown hair scars on the pvssy


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This is the 3rd online thread of the day.......

I'm cuirous Hyper to see what these girls looked like they sound like trailor park trash or "Hood rats"
 
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It seems, from your post, that you don't have a problem getting women, now granted maybe they weren't the most QUALITY of women, but your problem seems to be in keeping them around. Do you feel that you're reverting back to AFC ways during the relationship?
 
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Yeah I don't struggle to get them in the first place, but they sem to become dispondant after 2-3 months mark. I'm not sure its due to AFC behaviour, because from reading whats on here and other materials I like to keep them on their toes. I used to be very different than this I my early 20s. I think the problem is in fact the QUALITY of these women, not so much looks, but more on a moral and ethical level.

As for looks I can manage a 7 or the odd 8. I managed a 9 once

Id post some pics on here for a laugh but Im not sure how to do it
 
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How did girl B cost you 36k?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Became a total AFC and bought a house with her. Id slept there for 1 week before I came home to find doors locked lol
 
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Ughhhh, that fell bro.
 
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Apparently you have disposable income... why not spend it on a trip to Japan, Thailand, Philippines or China and live there a year or two to at least hook up with a decent younger/single woman w/0 kiddies?

I see a common theme in all of your examples: SINGLE MOTHER.

What is with the captain-save-a-ho invasion lately? This is my third response TODAY to a thread about dating Single Mothers.
 
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Hyper2010 said:
Met girl b - Met her online March 2010. Deep rooted daddy issues, complete control freak, eventually cost me £36k. 3 kiddies
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How did a single mother with 3 kids cost you 50 thousand dollars? That's like 100 abortions.

He said 36,000 pounds actually, which is more like 50 thousand dollars.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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