You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You don't tell me what to do!Bluntmaster said:Everyone, neg this guy for posting such a gay thread.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ure? Please, speak at least some English when you speak.Quality9.99 said:Ure a troll
And u sir are not a man, anything but actually.
Have fun
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
1. You fail at the English language.Fortress Maximus said:I've read you post, dumbass, and they suck. You sound like a women!
Yeah, you should talk. This is coming from the guy telling us how to know if a woman wants to get raped. I agree Fortress is an embarrassment, but you will never know what a true Don Juan is.Alchemystic said:We should banned him for worrying about rep points.
You are embarrassment to a True Don Juan.
A true Don Juan is his own master and does not seek external approval.
Only AFC Nice Guys seek external approval.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm so sorry, I'm sure your 30 post here have had an amazing impact.Alchemystic said:Please delete this thread immediately.
You are embarrassing the Don Juan community by worrying what people think of you.
San Jose, you have 1800 post and 2 rep points. If ANYBODY shouldn't talk, it's you, my friend.San Jose California said:I'm so sorry, I'm sure your 50 posts here have had an amazing impact.
When compared to 1800 post and two rep points? Ya, it's not bad, fool.San Jose California said:So negative points is better?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Probably your dad's side!!TheGunslinger said:I'm not sure which side should be more embarassed.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.