SpazzAttackk
Don Juan
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Okay so my girlfriend is a church goer, going twice a week and whatnot. In the beginning of the relationship I had no problems going I went ONCE IN A WHILE. I didnt go all the time because I knew if I started strong, Id have to end strong and lets face it Im not one for religion. I went out of respect for her parents and her.
Anywho, I havnt gone in awhile because work is more important obviously and just last week I promised her (Strong promise) that I would go, however I was working 6 days, monday to saturday and each day having to be up at 6 am. I have a high-stress job demanding a lot of physical and mental strain and just last night I messaged her telling her I was too beat up to go and I needed rest. I could sense the passive-aggressiveness in her texts so I said screw it and went to bed. I didn't want to deal with it late at night. Okay new day, church day; Yay. She brings up the church thing again and I kindly tell her No (Im still going to see her today just not at church so I dont know why shes complaining). She started giving me the most vague, 2 worded messages she could possibly think of. I go to call her, No answer. She messages me saying she will talk to me when I see her after church. At this point the passive aggressive replies are strong and I start getting annoyed.
And this is what I did. I told her if she was going to act this way because I didn't go to church with her then I dont think I wan't to come over period, and I told her to have a good day.
I understand I promised her but things came up, DJs did I do it wrong? I mean, we've been going strong for a year and we havn't had any major fights. This feels like a splinter in my side and if this church bull**** is going to keep up, then she can find someone else. I have no problems going, just when I have the time and energy. :crazy:
Were both mid 20s by the way, she still lives with her parents.
Anywho, I havnt gone in awhile because work is more important obviously and just last week I promised her (Strong promise) that I would go, however I was working 6 days, monday to saturday and each day having to be up at 6 am. I have a high-stress job demanding a lot of physical and mental strain and just last night I messaged her telling her I was too beat up to go and I needed rest. I could sense the passive-aggressiveness in her texts so I said screw it and went to bed. I didn't want to deal with it late at night. Okay new day, church day; Yay. She brings up the church thing again and I kindly tell her No (Im still going to see her today just not at church so I dont know why shes complaining). She started giving me the most vague, 2 worded messages she could possibly think of. I go to call her, No answer. She messages me saying she will talk to me when I see her after church. At this point the passive aggressive replies are strong and I start getting annoyed.
And this is what I did. I told her if she was going to act this way because I didn't go to church with her then I dont think I wan't to come over period, and I told her to have a good day.
I understand I promised her but things came up, DJs did I do it wrong? I mean, we've been going strong for a year and we havn't had any major fights. This feels like a splinter in my side and if this church bull**** is going to keep up, then she can find someone else. I have no problems going, just when I have the time and energy. :crazy:
Were both mid 20s by the way, she still lives with her parents.