"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be a man - I was at a concert with no seats and I was near the back These two gorgeous girls who were a little older then me and who I at first thought were out of my league asked if they could cut infront of me and my friend to see better. I was about to just say "no" thinking that they didnt really want to talk because they just wanted to get closer to the stage. Instead I decided to man up i said "Ill do you one better" and took the ones hand and led her to the front. I had to push people who were far bigger then me, I got some dirty looks, people deffinately called me and ass****, but it was all worth it. Now Instead of watch my favorite band with my friend, I was watching it with my friendand two hott chicks that absolutely loved me for what I did. The hotter one started grinding on me we made out, I got the digits and now I havea hook up for when I go down the shore. All because I was confident and took inititive.

Dont do what a girl tells you to do, your not her ***** In one of my classes I sat behind the absolute hottest most popular girl in our school. I was walking to the other side of the room and she says "be a doll and throw away this bottle for me", I dunno know how I did it but soo smothly and soo cooly I kinda smirked and laughed a little and said "yeah right", she laughed and was good spirited about it, and immediately after a few guys around offered to take her trash up for her haha. For many days to come she was all about me, and would lean back and asked me to give her a massage and stuff like that haha.

Anyway, I wanna write alot more, but I have to go, my point is that the tips on this site do work and if you will apply them you will see great results. In less then a year after I found this site and started to apply these concepts I went from not being able to attract girls and never really hooking up or going out with any to having many of the hottest girls in the school to choose from.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This kind of thing is getting old, girls KNOW that when you say no to them, that you're TRYING to tell her what to do, but see, this is reverse psychology (don't worry I've taken years of psychology), the best way is to say yes, but be funny in the process
 

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I agree. Definitely don't say no. That's not going to get you anywhere unless she's an attention w*ore and I don't want one of them.

Example: "Can you toss this bottle in the bin?" You reply "Sure, but you owe me one." Don't forget to smile of course :)

The difference is that you're friendly and helpful without acting like her pet dog.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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