"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My rant that turns into a tip.

vagrant

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I work as a caregiver right now helping old people use the bathroom at night, getting dirty wiping as$. I see them everyday walking slow, getting up in bed then going back where they will sleep for another 2 hours. They'll wake up for breakfast and have a caregiver dress them up. They watch t.v. and lay on their bed 18 hours a day.

It doesn't matter to anyone what you've done with your life whether you had a degree or not.

Time is GOLD remember that. Everything you do in every second of everyday, your time is paying for it. You are trading time for everything that you do. You always have a choice what to do with your time. You can even kill yourself right now if you wanted to. That's called CHOICE! life is full of choices. I'm a caregiver right now and I chose that. I want to move on from here and I will. You chose to be where you are right now and you can always choose what to do next.

And remember what I told you about all the old people that i take care of? Yes you will be on the bed in your room lonely 24 hours a day! Don't sit down, don't sleep too much, don't be on the television or online too much save it for later. Anything you want to do you can do it now man! Every thing's been done. Boxer, Actor, Singer, Doctor, Teacher, Pilot, a certified HVAC and the list goes on. Every little thing that you thought was impossible is POSSIBLE you just need to change your beliefs about yourself. It's about what you want remember that. That's what happiness is all about! Try to do something that you don't want and compare that to doing something that you want. That's called FREEDOM. That's called DREAM! Your dream is something you WANT! Don't ever stop pursuing your dream! Always find a way. If you can't do it going up, try going down, try every last option and make one if you have to. Be a high achiever and have the mind of one. Aim higher than the stars! Have the power of will, the persistence, the discipline to work when you want to work and to work even if you don't want to work.

Forget the money you wasted and forget getting the degree if it's not something you really want to do and STOP comparing yourself to other people. STOP comparing yourself to other people! Am I richer than you? maybe not but am I richer to someone who sleeps under a bridge maybe so. The point is it's nothing unless you compare it to something. The more you compare yourself to other people the more you'll hurt yourself. Forget how much your cousin earns. Worry about yourself. He doesn't care about how much you make.

If there's one thing you should always remember is that you always have a choice. It's up to you what you want to eat, what you want to drink, what kind of job you want to have, what kind of car you want to drive, where you want to live, in a room or under a bridge, all in all what you want to do with your life is up to you. You can even do drugs like my brother if you wanted to. That's your choice. Now look at your life and where you are right now. Close your eyes and make a choice how you want to live your life!~
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sam3083

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Woo! good post. Lets all go outside and kick some ass!
 
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