One on One
Master Don Juan
Ever since I've been coming to this site, my notion of sex being a sacred thing has gradually dwindled down, now to the point that I'm starting to think I'd bang any hot girl I meet. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or not. On the one hand, I'm more open to my own sexuality, but, on the other hand, I might be ignoring the emotional impact of sex. One thing I know I'll never want to do is intentionally hurt a girl's feelings and, if I accidentally lead her to believe we are in love when we have sex, then I would have failed in this regard. Basically, I still seek to be a "nice guy" in the player's sense of the word. I don't want to be a jackass.
With all that being said, I'm still a 21 year old virgin. I have never even kissed a girl, as pathetic as that sounds. However, doors are opening up to me through this site. I am learning the player way and I believe I have the looks, charm, and intelligence to go a long way in this player's game. I feel that the sky is the limit for me. I could bang a girl every night once I get my A game going. I'm not sure if this is a good goal to have, though. Am I hurting people's feelings by doing this?
It's tough to understand such a radical change in mindset over the course of a year. A year ago, I would never consider having sex with a girl before marriage. I even used to have the idea that I wanted my first kiss be with the girl that I married. Obviously, I realized the first kiss thing was completely unreasonable. After a while, I started to realize you have to mess around a little bit to find what you want, but, even a few weeks ago, I was unsure about sex. Now, I am pretty darn sure that I will go ahead and lose my virginity to the next nice, hot girl I feel a little connection too. I'd do it on the first date if the chance came up and the chemistry was right.
I don't know if anyone can give me answers, but surely others have dealt with the same issues. I don't want to be a real jerk and hurt people, but, at the same time, I have to be realistic and look out for myself. How can one resolve this?
With all that being said, I'm still a 21 year old virgin. I have never even kissed a girl, as pathetic as that sounds. However, doors are opening up to me through this site. I am learning the player way and I believe I have the looks, charm, and intelligence to go a long way in this player's game. I feel that the sky is the limit for me. I could bang a girl every night once I get my A game going. I'm not sure if this is a good goal to have, though. Am I hurting people's feelings by doing this?
It's tough to understand such a radical change in mindset over the course of a year. A year ago, I would never consider having sex with a girl before marriage. I even used to have the idea that I wanted my first kiss be with the girl that I married. Obviously, I realized the first kiss thing was completely unreasonable. After a while, I started to realize you have to mess around a little bit to find what you want, but, even a few weeks ago, I was unsure about sex. Now, I am pretty darn sure that I will go ahead and lose my virginity to the next nice, hot girl I feel a little connection too. I'd do it on the first date if the chance came up and the chemistry was right.
I don't know if anyone can give me answers, but surely others have dealt with the same issues. I don't want to be a real jerk and hurt people, but, at the same time, I have to be realistic and look out for myself. How can one resolve this?