"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My question, atm, is WHERE do I meet a woman?

Poonani Maker

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Some say nightclubs, go dancing. learn dancing, pubs, bars, daygame coffee shops grocery shopping. I've noticed that whenever I've donned a uniform, women want me more, football, military, you name it.

When I take off the uniform, I'm just another Joe schmo. 50% of women are VERY superficial and DUMB. oh well
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poonani Maker said:
Some say nightclubs, go dancing. learn dancing, pubs, bars, daygame coffee shops grocery shopping. I've noticed that whenever I've donned a uniform, women want me more, football, military, you name it.

When I take off the uniform, I'm just another Joe schmo. 50% of women are VERY superficial and DUMB. oh well
Apparently your image improves with being dressed up, so why not dress like a success? Don't be another Joe Schmo. Be a Don Juan.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Some say nightclubs, go dancing. learn dancing, pubs, bars, daygame coffee shops grocery shopping. I've noticed that whenever I've donned a uniform, women want me more, football, military, you name it.

When I take off the uniform, I'm just another Joe schmo. 50% of women are VERY superficial and DUMB. oh well
IDK if you've been to these venues but at least try them out, I haven't been to many clubs or bars but in place of those we similar parties here, but you're right and it's not just 50%. Its more like 95% and it's not just women, its men too. In general dude people are superficial, just use it to your advantage.

However, dressing up all the time is really aggravating, but nowadays if I'm not wearing at least nice jeans and a nice jacket or style I feel bummish, but I guess that's a good thing lol.
 
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