“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My pursuit comes to an end

becker

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Originally posted by Doppler4000
Dude, I'm cringing for you when I read this. There's no reason to do this. Plus it's just proof that what you said about really wanting to be only friends with her isn't true.



Just rationalization here... and I don't believe that, even in the face of her getting engaged, you're as willing as you say you are to move on.

Seriously, do yourself a favor and just drop it completely and move on to women who are actually available. You will save yourself more time and emotion that you realize- you've already wasted enough with this one. [/B]
Actually, it's more curiosity than anything on my part. Of course I was attracted to her, and before she got engaged, I wasn't about to just next her, but now that she is, it's really a non-issue to me as to whether we'll actually get together, because the chances are likely zero to none. I guess unlike other people, I'd rather know than to stay friends with her (which basically will be the case, since again, it's just not going to be easy to next her being that we are such close friends) even though it won't change anything, that's not what I'm trying to do anyways.

Bottom line is I'm either going to move on knowing how she felt, or not knowing how she felt. I would rather know because at least it gives me a concrete answer either way, and for me, it is easier to move on that way.

I don't see any downside to that, but if you do, tell me, I'm open.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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It seems like alot of times girls won't set you up as their friends.

Chicks are as competitive as guys and you were her Plan B for a while, so she never set you up with her other friends.

The other problem is if she did actively set you up with her friends, you know how that goes. Someone that is being setup feels awkward, and it doesn't normally work out.

Now for you, you got to hang out with her and her friends and start hitting on her friends.

It is possible however that the girl getting engaged, might have one last fling... You might be the guy!
 

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Ricky, I like the way you think (of course I'm taking a totally biased view here).

Anyways, this girl and I had plans to do something before she got engaged, and now that she's engaged, her time is limited because of all the stuff she will now have to do to prepare. However, I'm going to hold her to the plan, and we'll do what we planned to do together, and that's it. It will be one last hurrah.
 
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