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My Prom is in 2 1/2 weeks

nestea16

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Ok, i have prom in less than 3 weeks, and all i have to do is fine a date ....... *sigh*


I dont want to go with any of the girls i already know so my only option is to approach new ones.

Is it weird and sudden to ask someone to prom without even formally knowing them? how should i go about this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Oxide

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hmmm be glad you are not me this week, i got 4 days.:rolleyes:
 

Kwah

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Go boys, you can do it. Just approach women ;) tell them you have been interested in them for a while and ask them to prom, doesnt matter if you just saw her, lie to her.

Hell ask every 3rd girl you see till a few say yes ;)
 

Oxide

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god damnit kwah, sitting here makes me feel all powerful, but when i do get to school i feel like a chump to come up to some unknown girl. GRRRRRRRRRR> time to fight
 

Kwah

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heh, think of it this way. Your a senior right? After a few weeks all the chicks you asked to prom will no longer be your concern ;) And if your not a senoir you'll have a bunch of chicks who know your name next year ;)
 

Oxide

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oh my god. i dont know why i am such a ****ing idiot. this is 2 weeks straight i cant ask this girl out. i dont think she is on piedistal at all, but when i am in school she is always around girls, i was gonna do it this way "hey, what are u girls doing for prom? " and start from there, but never got a chance. i also got my best friend in that class too, adding to trouble.

****. prom is saturday.
 

Kwah

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Just Bronze your balls and get in there man. **** I would go do it myself if I was tehre.
 

Oxide

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lol, i know . a minute after the bell rings i slap myself on the forhead and say "WTF was i thinking?!"
 

midaus

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next time youre in class think about how you felt all the other times you let yourself down.. if that doesnt give you a feeling of motivation i dont know what will.

good luck ;)
 

seloifter

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*shrug* maybe nothing will get you motivated in time
maybe you'll go dateless
maybe in two years from now when you still haven't found the guts to ask a girl out, you'll think back to this day and think "god dmanit I was such an IDIOT!! How could I be so stupid and not even *ASK* a girl??" and you'll finally grab your balls and ask a girl :)
it's never too late ;)..... but then again it would be better timing to do it NOW :)
 
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