newuser123
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Hi Everyone,
Been reading alot of stuff here and applying some of the theory here in my life. If you checked out my 1st post, I sounded PATHETIC and I'm trying to chang to a better person. I've been going to the gym alot the past few months, and attending Hot yoga sessions the next day after an intense workout to stretch those tight muscles. I've been concentrating on my career and recently I've decided to take up motorcycle riding. In short I've been improving on myself and I'm Busyyyyy.
Now the part with the ladies.
I've been talking to the ladies at work. I've been working 6 months with them and only after I was single I've decided to approach them. Yikes. This is to improve my conversational skills. I'm still working on my cold approaches. I get alot of glances from women outside but I'm frozen to do anything. Night clubs are a different thing. I do alot of sarging when I'm at clubs. I seem to be more confident of myself when I'm there. I do get rejected by women who has bfs and also lesbians, but there are always that HB that gives me their numbers.
Now here's the thing. Last night when I was talking to a lady, I got distracted with phone calls from work. I usually have to pick up the calls as it's usually urgent. I would excuse myself and go outside the club to talk. When I'm back on the table, the lady asked what I was working as. The conversation went like this.
Lady : What do you work as?
Me : In the IT Field
Lady : How much do you earn?
Me : That's not important.
Lady : Sits there quietly (Gold digger? or is she just trying to make conversation?)
We made a couple of short conversations and she left with her friends. I didn't ask for her number at all. What I want to know is, do you disclose your occupation earlier on? Or let it remain a mystery. How could I have done better in this conversation?
Been reading alot of stuff here and applying some of the theory here in my life. If you checked out my 1st post, I sounded PATHETIC and I'm trying to chang to a better person. I've been going to the gym alot the past few months, and attending Hot yoga sessions the next day after an intense workout to stretch those tight muscles. I've been concentrating on my career and recently I've decided to take up motorcycle riding. In short I've been improving on myself and I'm Busyyyyy.
Now the part with the ladies.
I've been talking to the ladies at work. I've been working 6 months with them and only after I was single I've decided to approach them. Yikes. This is to improve my conversational skills. I'm still working on my cold approaches. I get alot of glances from women outside but I'm frozen to do anything. Night clubs are a different thing. I do alot of sarging when I'm at clubs. I seem to be more confident of myself when I'm there. I do get rejected by women who has bfs and also lesbians, but there are always that HB that gives me their numbers.
Now here's the thing. Last night when I was talking to a lady, I got distracted with phone calls from work. I usually have to pick up the calls as it's usually urgent. I would excuse myself and go outside the club to talk. When I'm back on the table, the lady asked what I was working as. The conversation went like this.
Lady : What do you work as?
Me : In the IT Field
Lady : How much do you earn?
Me : That's not important.
Lady : Sits there quietly (Gold digger? or is she just trying to make conversation?)
We made a couple of short conversations and she left with her friends. I didn't ask for her number at all. What I want to know is, do you disclose your occupation earlier on? Or let it remain a mystery. How could I have done better in this conversation?