"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my problems

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I finally went and wrote down my problems. I really can’t believe there weren’t any more. Once you get it written down it really helps. I’ve come up with solutions for my problems and rated them ( like in soniqs post ) and any feedback, criticism or advice would be really useful.

-Low confidence/self esteem/ bad attitude
-See the school counsellor Ease: Very Bad, Practiality:very good, Probability: no idea bit ill say good Chosen < mabey not the best idea?
-Use this ebook I have ‘Unstoppable Confidence’. Ease: very good, Practicality: very good, Probability: medium Chosen
-Hope that things will fix up as I improve. Ease: very good, practicality: very bad, Probability: bad
- talk to someone else about it. Ease: very bad, Practicality: bad, Probability: bad

- Unorganised
-Use my school dairy planner and check my dairy every day. Ease: good, Practicality: good, Probability:good
-buy a more expensive planner. Ease: good, Practicality: good Probability: very good Chosen
-do a course in being organism Ease: bad, Practicality: very bad, Probability: very good

-Shyness/poor social skills
-DJ bootcamp Ease: bad, Practicality:good, Probability: very good
-make up my own bootcamp for my needs. Ease: very bad, Practicality:good, Probability: very good
Undecided

That’s only about half of them but I don’t have time to write the rest right now, and the other ones are simpler any way. Anyway please give me some feed back about this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jester FPS

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I don't quite understand your rating scale... but if I can guess .. to see a school counselour is very hard but you think the chances you might do it is so so?
 

MrS

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Looks like a lot of milk & cheese in your problems, there.
 
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