"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my problems

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I finally went and wrote down my problems. I really can’t believe there weren’t any more. Once you get it written down it really helps. I’ve come up with solutions for my problems and rated them ( like in soniqs post ) and any feedback, criticism or advice would be really useful.

-Low confidence/self esteem/ bad attitude
-See the school counsellor Ease: Very Bad, Practiality:very good, Probability: no idea bit ill say good Chosen < mabey not the best idea?
-Use this ebook I have ‘Unstoppable Confidence’. Ease: very good, Practicality: very good, Probability: medium Chosen
-Hope that things will fix up as I improve. Ease: very good, practicality: very bad, Probability: bad
- talk to someone else about it. Ease: very bad, Practicality: bad, Probability: bad

- Unorganised
-Use my school dairy planner and check my dairy every day. Ease: good, Practicality: good, Probability:good
-buy a more expensive planner. Ease: good, Practicality: good Probability: very good Chosen
-do a course in being organism Ease: bad, Practicality: very bad, Probability: very good

-Shyness/poor social skills
-DJ bootcamp Ease: bad, Practicality:good, Probability: very good
-make up my own bootcamp for my needs. Ease: very bad, Practicality:good, Probability: very good
Undecided

That’s only about half of them but I don’t have time to write the rest right now, and the other ones are simpler any way. Anyway please give me some feed back about this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't quite understand your rating scale... but if I can guess .. to see a school counselour is very hard but you think the chances you might do it is so so?
 
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Looks like a lot of milk & cheese in your problems, there.
 
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