My problems, My situations, and please some advice

[ocbeachbum]

Hello
heres my story. Im a very nervous person and Ive had anxiety issues all through my life. Im 22 now. I had 2 girlfriends that I thought I loved cheat on me. So needles to say Im nervous about approaching new girls. I was fat, very fat like 350lbs. Now with the help of a low carb diet and steroids Im a healthy, built great 260 pounder. I dont have the best looking teeth in the world because my parents never had insurance to get me braces. Right now it would cost 14 grand to get them fixed which to me isnt worth it to attract a girl. Im an independent pro wrestler so I def. have something interesting and unique about me. I got in better shape and I still havent gained the confidence or got any girls.

Im not a club person. When I go I basically just kinda follow my buddies. I can dance but not very good if its with a girl. So at a club usually if you talk to a girl it would involve an eventual dance so I stay away. I havent meet any girls at work, wrestling, etc. I dont know what else to do.

I dont like fat chicks. They make me sick. Im picky I know but Id rather be alone and beat off than date a girl Im not attracted just because I had to settle for it. At this point in my life I dont want a serious girlfriend. I just want someone to hang out with and be intimate with.

Theres my other problem. Im a virgin. Everytime I get close to having sex I chicken out. Basically because Im worried since Im not experience I will suck. I also have an uncircumsized penis. I dont know if anyone else out there has one but it hurts me. When I do it myself It doesnt but when a girl does(hand and blow jobs and such) the skin goes all the way down and it hurts like hell. I hate it. It feels weird and its painful. Plus since I dont like pulling the skin back its prob. got a little cotton or something down in there. I try to get it out occasionally. I know its sick but its a problem I have.

Im stuck. i dont know what to do

Please help me any way you can

 

[MrBond007]

260 isnt healthy unless its 260 wort of muscle.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

For one thing you are getting too emotionally attached too soon to unworthy women - don't do this! You are bringing pain upon yourself and this will hamper your next relationship.

You may need to lose more weight depending on your height and muscle ratio. Wrestling as an occupation can either attract women or turned them off as an occupational choice. Are you doing anything else besides wrestling as a career?

Clubs are where the women are at for the picking but they are of low caliber - try searching elsewhere. I can't imagine wrestling venues as a a good place for pick-ups.

If you don't have the best teeth try to keep them as white and as healthy as possible.

Dress in clothes that have a stylish tilt that compliment your physical build.

 

[DJ_Dork]

You got a lot of shiat you gotta work out man. Avoid girls for now and just try to get yourself socially adjusted for about 2-3 months then get in the game.