I don't know if it's just me, but there seems to be ALOT of these TopSh1t 'I'm so hot and i i'm so good' guys around these forumns lols.
Anyways back to my problem...
I would love to hear some advices....
My ex broke up with me a little over a month now, we've been dating for 7 months andduring that 7 months every thing was really great. We loved each other very much, we did everything together. About 3 months into the relationship she moved in with me and things were all working out fine. We would go out all day, then sometimes at night spend time at home just lying on the bed watching dvd's, everything was just perfect.
After 7 months she told me she has no feelings for me anymore, she says i don't give her space andi don't let her go out with her friends. She moved in with me.... what space can i give her? and i never ever disagreed on her going out with her friends. It's just that she has been spending everyday with me, i never ever said anything about her can't going out with her friends.... it's just that she doesn't...
Anyways, after we broke up, she moved out and i helped her find an apartment, it took like two days and she fouund one but didn't have enough money to pay for the rent. I paid for like almost half of it even though she isn't my gf anymore but i loved her so i helped her.
About a week later her ex asked her out and she refused him.
Now, this ex of 2 years of her treated her really bad when they were toegether, he has anger problems and sometimes hits her, and he cheated on her that's why they broke up. The things is, after we broke up she has been seeing that guy "AS FRIENDS" alot recently. They have been going out and doing stuff i think... but im not sure.
Afterwe broke up, i was heartbroken, i still love her and really wanted her back, i asked her to give me another chanceto be with her again. She said that she will think about it, but right now she is happy the way she is and wants to be single. Even after we broke up she would msg me or call me asking me to lend her some money to pay for rent.... food.... gas... etc...
I've been giving her all my money when ever it comes in.... I know i know i shouldn't be giving her money..... since she is not my gf anymore but i just can't help it.... If i dont help her, she would just get her ex that treated her so badly to help her andi really don't want her to have annything to do with him.
So, ever since we broke up, probably every 2 weeks she would msg me and ask me for money.... i've basically paid for her rent....
I just want her back.... i just want everything to be like it use to be...
Ever since we broke up, she has been going out almost every night and hardly stays at her apartment, and it is killing me knowing that she is going out and doing all these things... I really don't know what to do. right now i am just giving her time and space alone, but it is killing me knowing that she is spending time with her ex, and going out all the time.
Do you guys think that she still has feelings for that guy?
Do you guys think i have any chance at all?
Anyways back to my problem...
I would love to hear some advices....
My ex broke up with me a little over a month now, we've been dating for 7 months andduring that 7 months every thing was really great. We loved each other very much, we did everything together. About 3 months into the relationship she moved in with me and things were all working out fine. We would go out all day, then sometimes at night spend time at home just lying on the bed watching dvd's, everything was just perfect.
After 7 months she told me she has no feelings for me anymore, she says i don't give her space andi don't let her go out with her friends. She moved in with me.... what space can i give her? and i never ever disagreed on her going out with her friends. It's just that she has been spending everyday with me, i never ever said anything about her can't going out with her friends.... it's just that she doesn't...
Anyways, after we broke up, she moved out and i helped her find an apartment, it took like two days and she fouund one but didn't have enough money to pay for the rent. I paid for like almost half of it even though she isn't my gf anymore but i loved her so i helped her.
About a week later her ex asked her out and she refused him.
Now, this ex of 2 years of her treated her really bad when they were toegether, he has anger problems and sometimes hits her, and he cheated on her that's why they broke up. The things is, after we broke up she has been seeing that guy "AS FRIENDS" alot recently. They have been going out and doing stuff i think... but im not sure.
Afterwe broke up, i was heartbroken, i still love her and really wanted her back, i asked her to give me another chanceto be with her again. She said that she will think about it, but right now she is happy the way she is and wants to be single. Even after we broke up she would msg me or call me asking me to lend her some money to pay for rent.... food.... gas... etc...
I've been giving her all my money when ever it comes in.... I know i know i shouldn't be giving her money..... since she is not my gf anymore but i just can't help it.... If i dont help her, she would just get her ex that treated her so badly to help her andi really don't want her to have annything to do with him.
So, ever since we broke up, probably every 2 weeks she would msg me and ask me for money.... i've basically paid for her rent....
I just want her back.... i just want everything to be like it use to be...
Ever since we broke up, she has been going out almost every night and hardly stays at her apartment, and it is killing me knowing that she is going out and doing all these things... I really don't know what to do. right now i am just giving her time and space alone, but it is killing me knowing that she is spending time with her ex, and going out all the time.
Do you guys think that she still has feelings for that guy?
Do you guys think i have any chance at all?