"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my problem is meeting girls in the summer

neonlimited

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Its summer, and that means there is no school, school was just about the only place I felt confident approaching random girls, I have a new job and met a few there, but I am not confident approaching girls in spots such as the mall, and its driving me nuts... Ive read everything on this site about confidence and somehow ITS NOT ENOUGH.. what is wrong with me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just hang out around town and pick up on the ladies... join some kind of activity/class (preferably with females...) where you can meet new people.
 

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Parties my son.
 

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why?girls are all the same.. whether they're in home clothes or not it doesnt matter..GO for it! whats wrong? You lacked nuts...........for now.Thats whats wrong with you :) all the best
 

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You gain confidence by overcoming your fears (appoarching).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Patrick124

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I don't usually do cold approaches either, but i STILL manage to meet tons of girls. I guess with my lucky with girls infront of guys, i've portrayed a "player" image...so guess who my friends call when they need a wingman for a date? I literally have 3-4 guys who ONLY call me to be their wingmanif need be.
 
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