"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My prediction for dating by 2028 and beyond the foreseeable future

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Things change, you either decide to change with them or you become obsolete.
It reminded me of a person who agreed to be a cuckold to his wife because "all her friends do it".

Jokes aside, the world is connected, but it's all very relative to your social life.

Your social circle and family will be influenced to do the same things.

If some people's wives divorce, then you'll be a single dad. If everyone's wives stay together and don't cheat, then you'll be long-term couples.

If everyone is a jock and a gym-goer, then you will be one, and if they aren't, then you'll be like them, obese and watching TV.

If there are unemployed, low-level employees, then you will be them.
If there are entrepreneurs, men who take risks, then you will be a little of this.

I have always believed that the environment has a much more important influence than what "you think will happen in the future" because we are all made up of small actions, which form habits.

I have known rich people who were only rich in their account, and not in their social connections that "accustomed" them to having a rich life.
In fact, many of them did nothing but a job not different from a warehouse worker, but they invoiced 1 million a year. I have instead known wealthy people who were the truly rich ones.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Analogous to some folks who were getting few to no Trick R Treaters come Halloween, so rather than filming a 45 minute vlog attributing this to the decline of The West, they:

Built a gigantic haunt in their front yard, complete with fog machines, gigantic monsters, LED, etc and put out the word that they were doing so. Local and even cable news outlets even got wind of their efforts, and profiled them. At least a few other folks in their neighborhood took cues, put more effort into sprucing up their homes for the holidays than usual, and estimated 500 trick r treaters appeared that Halloween

Similar is true of dating and mating. There was a time, in the not too distant past, where the prevailing mindset among men was essentially: "Prejudices and biases towards men exist, great... We can reduce this drastically, by rolling up our sleeves and doing what's required to win converts. Even most card-carrying Feminists are susceptible to influence
https://www.reddit.com/r/menwritingwomen/comments/rfdd9t
https://archive.seattletimes.com/ar...rapist-wants-men-to-reclaim-their-masculinity "

We could benefit from a revival of that "Wait a minute, we're pretty good guys and we're not just going to fold anymore,' " mindset. Note that during those days(And again, we're talking as recently as the late 90s-The early 10s), what eventually came to be called Wokeness didn't exert nearly the stranglehold on our social atmosphere that it has for the past decade, despite the fact that it very much existed
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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By 2028 Women will be happy to go on coffee dates, because due to hyperinflation coffee will cost $30 a cup


These are photos of people waiting in DROVES to buy Gold, these pics were just taken 2 days ago (October 15th)


Please everyone, get a 1000 XRP you will thank me in 2028 when things really get rough (yes financial advice)
 

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Okay guys, with the way things are proceeding right now….are any of your posts you feel right and accurate?
I predicted that 90% of our species would STILL be devoting to their energies towards griping about events they have zero influence over, while remaining oblivious to their immediate environment. Just as we always have

The "prophecy" proved more accurate than inferring most viewers on Super Bowl Sunday would be too piss faced to actually follow along with the game, once half time rolled around
 

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Regarding online dating: the new stage 0 is coming - a 5mins tops pre-date video call to assess whether it is worth to meet each other or not.
Even this is now risky for men as you see numerous videos on social media about scammers using video chats as source footage to turn into blackmail vids using AI etc.
 

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TLDR Summary....It is over for men lol. I wish I could predict a happy ending, but I simply cannot.

I might have already covered this topic before, but I wanted to give an update now that the election is over. It hasn’t even been a month yet, but I think I’ve seen enough to confidently make a prediction about the future of dating. Several factors are shaping the dating landscape, including a declining quality of life for the average American—stagnant wages, lower education levels, reduced disposable income, unstable employment, toxic work cultures in traditionally stable jobs, and rising crime rates. Honestly, I think we’re heading toward a dystopian future similar to what we see in developed Asian countries, but with a Western twist.

However, this does not apply to minorities in entrenched cultural like a black guy living in inner city Baltimore or Hispanic living in the valley.

1). Herbivore Men will now be the normal-

Your average man will be overweight, socially awkward, addicted to some substance, stuck in a dead-end job (or reliant on UBI if that becomes a thing), living with roommates at best, undereducated, mentally checked out, and clinging to some male demi-god father figure for guidance.

2). Femcels will now be a thing-

Femcels already exist, but they’ve mostly been limited to the stereotypical "crazy cat lady" type. However, this culture is now crossing over to include average and even attractive women. The era of the single, independent "boss babe" is well past its peak. Your typical dateable single woman will lead a lonely, unfulfilling life, receiving less attention from men and rejecting the corporate hustle and casual dating scene that Millennial and Gen X women once embraced. If you want a glimpse of what this future looks like, check out this video or the solo camping vlogs that many Asian women are posting on YouTube. Invest in Pet stock lol.



3). People will have less sex, and Hedonistic activities will be limited to the lower class, certain communities, and Rich People- As many men hated feminism and the boss babe caricatures, this allowed all men to have access to casual sex at ease. With this in decline, you will see less casual sex in the dating environment which will make the game less fun.

4). Social Circles and Service jobs will be the only avenues to meeting women-

If you don’t have a healthy social circle, your best bet is to become a bartender, waiter, or take any job that constantly puts you in social situations with women. Otherwise, you’re completely cooked, lol.

5). Online Dating & Cold Approaching will be in the History Books-

Online dating will basically turn into Chatroulette for women—chaotic, full of dvck pics, and unreliable and just completely unusable for men—and may even cease to exist, except for niche apps like Seeking. Cold approaching will become extinct as women become less receptive to random interactions due to rising crime rates, social fatigue, and declining self-esteem. If you’re not already part of a woman’s social circle or community, your chances of interacting with her are practically zero.

6). Chads will convert to Tradcons, resulting in the official end of the Fvck Boy era-

Gen Z has a lower tolerance for f***boys and "bad boys" compared to Millennials and younger Gen X. This is largely because they’re poorer on average, and every guy their age is trying to imitate that persona. In a world of rising crime, stagnant wages, and skyrocketing living costs, traditional "bad boys" won’t thrive the way they once did. Instead, the new "Chad" will be a Herculean, ultra-disciplined, Alpha TradCon-type figure—one who embodies strength, stability, and traditional masculinity....Of course looks will still be the main factor.


7). BOLD PREDICTON: White men will become the most active in interracial dating-

White men are going to call it quits with white women and start gravitating toward non-white women in large numbers. This shift will make things harder for Hispanic, Asian, and rogue Black men, as they’ll now be competing with white men for their own women. Meanwhile, white and assimilated women will become less open to dating in general. The only exceptions will be minority men who are deeply rooted in strong cultural or social circles where language, zip codes and traditions create a significant barrier to outside competition.


8). Men suicides, depression and violent crimes will begin to be a major concern-

Unfortunately, it is easier today then it will be tomorrow. If you think there's going to be a happy ending for men in the future, then you have not been paying attention.


In this new environment, men will have two choices:
  1. Gamble the second half of their lives by diving into hedonistic communities—becoming a bartender, server, party boy, etc.
  2. Embrace temporary monogamy while leveling up until they reach a position where attracting high-SMV women requires minimal effort.
Okay guys, with the way things are proceeding right now….are any of your posts you feel right and accurate? Let’s talk about it
Honestly, it sounds like nature is just correcting itself.

I disagree that online is done for though, it’s just that the avenues have changed. I won’t say where to look or how just because I’m against this degeneracy lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay guys, with the way things are proceeding right now….are any of your posts you feel right and accurate? Let’s talk about it
Number 1 is already happening now with 60% of men 18-35(Prime Age) who are single. Make no mistake a reckoning is coming, these men are not going to sit back and live lives of not having any financial options for their future or getting laid/wives/partners without a fight. The reason Trump won the election is that a lot of men are not living the lives they were promised at a younger age(Hence Trump got a lot of Gen-Z white men, Hispanics and a record black men to vote for him). Men who don't see any hope for their future or live unpurposeful lives are some of the most desperate and dangerous men. For those who want to Know how Hitler got into Power in Germany during the 20s-30s just study his life.

2. Femcels is a myth IMO. If a woman is a Femcel IMO it's because

1. She is shooting for men above her league but can't get them due to being socially awkward, mentally ill, or just plain unattractive
I have seen ugly insufferable women in relationships, so to say attractive women are femcels is a joke. I have seen a "5" at best women go on 30 dinner dates in 30 days just "to see if She can do it". How often do you see a thread being made on this forum about a "BPD" or batshyt crazy woman putting a guy through the ringer just because she is "Hot"? which in itself is subjective because having met some members IRL what they find "HOT" I find "MID" and vice versa

This is true for undesirable men, You have already seen in the last 4 years the explosion of "Passport bros". Top Tier white women aka "The bougie white women" as @SW15 calls them. Will continue to go after handsome, affluent men.(regardless of race) However, the nerdy ugly guy who could get a midtier or lower upper tier white chick back in the 1950s-1990s(Think Rollo T) due to a stable career will have to bring more money, or a skillset to the table in the near future (i.e. farmers, AIniche worker etc). Hyperinflation and the cost of living within the next 5 years is going to be through the roof. Do not be shocked if women particularly white women adjust their mating strategy for more of a provider type. Also it's estimated that 41% of companies are planning to reduce their workforce by 2030 due to AI.

The "mythically magically" 1950s that Redpillers fantasize about will not come back. If you are not utilizing the time now to the next 5 years to learn how to take advantage of AI. Getting laid or a girlfriend will be the least of your worries regardless of what race you are

Men who are masculine will continue to win in the future if not moreso
Men who are whiners, complainers, blackpillers will be stuck in the VR world with a bottle of lotion
1. You see more young men not just leaning right but altright. The weirdest part of the alrtright is how many brown and black guys try to intergate including these fraud uncle tom podcasters, some serious cognitive dissonance there I won't go further cause I wanna keep it clean

2. "Foids" another term for femcels is currently going mainstream however, most of the women who call themselves foids are average or BELOW average looking women
 

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Okay guys, As you can see a few of the predictions are coming to fruition. As side from dating, do you guys have any predictions for 2028 when it comes to the social climate, people and environment of America and the rest of the world?
 

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Femcel is really the wrong term for this. Very few females under menopause age lack sex. What women tend to lack is committed sex.

Chateau Heartiste had a term for these women. Insols - involuntary solitude.

The female insol and the male incel are roughly analogous. However, the female insol is rarely a social outcast and usually has acceptable social skills. She has some female friends and usually fits in somewhat well in social situations. This doesn't happen with male incels. The female insol is able to get sex if she's under menopause age.
female incels are a thing if you are morbidly obese, or have some sort of other physical problems

insols, yeah is a better thing for at least acceptable women. Plenty of those, but the issue with them is that from a certain point onwards they get f8cked in the head and also will loose most of the interest in sex or something along these lines

even with the stereotype of the crazy cat lady, it is not really about not being necessarily about attractiveness or that she tends to be on the older side when it comes to age, but it is mainly about being f8cked in the head most of the times
 

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As side from dating, do you guys have any predictions for 2028 when it comes to the social climate, people and environment of America and the rest of the world?
Folks will be traveling to many more nations other than Turkey for hair transplants
 

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My prediction for 2028

1. Dating will be radically different due to cost and
because most men and even many women will not be able to afford it. With the rise of AI, data centers, hyperinflation, and cost of living, things are getting too expensive. I have a couple go to spots near where I live that used to be dirt cheap. Before Covid in 2019 you could get chicken wings for $9.99 and during happy hour for $5.99. Now chicken wings cost $16.99 and during happy hour $15.99. While coffee dates are optimal, they do not exactly scream romance if you know what I mean. which leads to point number 2

2. More men and women will opt out of dating. The numbers show that both genders are leaving online dating at high rates. Bumble stock in 2021 was $78.89 a share. Now it is $5.97, down over 92 percent. What does this have to do with dating? Many people, both men and women, are complaining that dating apps just do not work. This forum has known this for decades. Dating app algorithms are against you.

3. Poly and ENM relationships will continue to rise. I live in a progressive area and the rise of poly and ENM relationships has increased tenfold in the last decade. This mostly benefits women or the top men. For the average guy thinking he will have five hot girlfriends, it is a fool’s errand. At best you will be sharing your girl with five other men while you have no options and are paying the girl’s rent. This video is a perfect example.

4. Guys who have their stuff together will have a dating buffet. If you are a guy with a decent or high-paying job, in shape, living in a nice apartment or house, with confidence, good style, and decent game, dating will be easier for you than ever. You don't even have to be a Chad. Most guys 18-35 are living at home with their parents or working underpaid jobs and are overweight. As long as you're in good shape that alone in most areas will automatically put you in the top 25% of men in most areas in America. I have seen a buddy of mine who struggled in the 2010s with dating. Then flipped a switch in 2022, He lost 40 pounds, studied game, got a better job, and now he is turning women down left and right.

5. More men will leave major cities for smaller towns and hybrid locations as a practical response. As costs keep rising and dating apps keep underperforming, the guys who still want real relationships will start optimizing for lower competition and lower overhead instead of chasing volume in expensive metros. Places with 10 to 20 thousand people, or solid towns within a short drive of a city, will look more attractive. The men who make that move with a remote job and their standards intact will likely find higher interest rates and more relationship minded women than they would have by staying in the overstimulated urban market.

Overall, dating will suck for most men, especially those who are currently struggling, while a select few will experience a utopia of options.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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