"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. To do Brazilian jiu-jitsu
2.To get reacquainted with my hobby of aquariums
3.Dj Boot camp/overall game
3.To go clubbing with buddies at work/ making more real friends
4.To become a more positive person I'm enrolling in this enviroment changer program from Larry billota
5.Making wiser investments with my money
6. Last but not least Tattoos for aesthetic reasons

Any suggestions or tips would be appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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forgot to add learn to play guitar
 
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I'm learning guitar playing from www.justinguitar.com. It's good stuff, and his videos are free, so you can practice without costing a dime, and by the time you want to take lessons(if at all), you can probably do a bit of guitar playing already.
 
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