"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My plan for this girl. Good?

toddC

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Hey guys,

Wanna try something kind of new that I really have not done before. See up until now I've let my looks do the work for me. That worked out kind of decent, I was pulling 6s-7s. I thought I had great game but I recently realized I have little to no game, lol.

So for this girl I'm going to change my actions.

See I already got with her this past weekend, but I want it to happen again and again. So I kind of made a play by play of what I would liek to happen and tell me what you guys think...

I'm going to see her at the bar so I figure I'll walk up to her give her a kiss and hug hello (hold the hug a lil long). Then just talk to her and get some kino going. I'm pretty much going to use some of the Gunwitch method. My last, most intense kino I'm going to do is lean in for a whisper and start on the lower of her back and work my way up.

Then I want to bring up the past weekend and say like "hey you want to talk about what happend with us last weekend," or something to that extent. Through that convo I'm going to be like yea I enjoyed myself we should do it again sometime soon...

Hopefully get a good response from that and ask her to come have some drinks at my place rather thant he bar.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bat

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What are you, the coach of a football team that you're laying out step-by-step plans for? "Game" isn't about how well-thought out and planned the actions that you intend to make. "Game" is about being creative enough to read her and come up with moves on the spot.

Whatever you did to get with her the first time, just keep doing that. Don't try to change the game plans because you might come off too strong. Actually, you'll probably come off too strong.

As always, take any advice you get here with a grain of salt because we only know you by text.

Plus, just have fun. Don't over-analyze these things.
 

Stéphane

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The Bat said:
What are you, the coach of a football team that you're laying out step-by-step plans for? "Game" isn't about how well-thought out and planned the actions that you intend to make. "Game" is about being creative enough to read her and come up with moves on the spot.

Whatever you did to get with her the first time, just keep doing that. Don't try to change the game plans because you might come off too strong. Actually, you'll probably come off too strong.

As always, take any advice you get here with a grain of salt because we only know you by text.

Plus, just have fun. Don't over-analyze these things.
I disagree look at mystery he's the ultimate player, and every move is calculated.
 
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