“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My personal texting rules.

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Your phone is a weapon for getting women. It's used to give them attention in a manner that you would be able to do in person. But you're not in person and thus, attention can be constant.

Attention is our currency. It's okay if the transaction is 50/50, but when it becomes anything high than that... Then that means you're paying more than what the sticker price is.

It's fine if it's 40/60 or 30/70... But never anything above 50/50. And anything under 20/80 is basically dysfunctional.

So how do you do this? Well your phone is your bank account and your messages are your currency. You can either pay the sticker price(50/50), and have a giving and receiving transaction, or pay less for potentially more.

So how do you do this with a phone? Well you delay your messages. It's a simple and kind of dumb way to raise interest. But keep in mind that you have to have some type of interest in the first place.

My delaying rules:

I simply double the time it takes for a girl to respond and add a couple of minutes. When I first get a girls number, I don't wait 'x' amount of days. I usually wait a couple of hours and determine the amount of time needed to respond. Medium-high interest is exactly that. Low interest girls will not respond at all.

So if I text a girl, and she responds within 2 minutes, I respond in 4-6. It's a simple solution of making the best of your currency. Of course, you can go a bit more longer. You can do 8-10 minutes.

But there is limits to this rule.

The biggest one is long responses. If she takes an hour to reply, whether it's excusable or not, you have to take 2. But if she takes any longer than 2 hours, you don't respond to her until the next day.

Yes, a 2 hour response = no response until the next day. You can bend this rule to 1 hour and 45 mins too, same concept. The point that you want to subtly make is that your attention has value.

But what if she takes longer than 3 hours? Say she responds 4 hours later. Well you don't respond that day, or the next, but the second. So say she takes 4 hours to respond on the day you were texting. You don't respond until the day after tomorrow.

Anything longer than that = 3-5 days of not messaging her unless she messages you. But this a bit extreme and you have to be dedicated.

The only exception is if she gives a valid reason, like apologizing or explaining what she was doing. If so, refer to the 2 hour rule. Unless it's an emergency situation- or depending how much you want to care.

The goal is create a circulation of communication that doesn't stop. And if it does, she initiates because she knows that you will almost never respond. If the 3+ hour scenario constantly occurs, then that means she isn't interested. Delete her number so you don't waste any more of your currency.

Also, if you're bad at texting than I would advise to either do this(to get better) or use texting to set up dates(don't even text).


So there you have it. A simple way to raise interest. The best way to do this is to disable the notification you would get.

Your attention is your best weapon.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This definitely works. However, the simplest approach is to simply not text.

What???! How can that be?

Texting has no upisde. It's not required to get laid, therefore doing it does not help you.. it can merely hurt you (though it doesn't always).

My rules for texting are simple. I only do it under the following circumstances:

-Responding to her text, when she initiates. Usually this is to say thanks for a nice date. I reply then ghost until it's time to ask her out again. If she intiates again, I'll ask her out right then and there through text.

-to send an address

I stopped worrying about time delays. It's really unnecessary. If you using texting properly (as in not doing it), it won't matter how fast or slowly you respond.
 
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