"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My Personal Standards

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It seems that alot of people here are only interested in sleeping with the hottest girl they can find as often as possible. theres something seriously wrong with that idea.

For me, the best thing that can ever happen is that I meet a girl that doesnt just meet my expectations but exceeds them. And I have extremely high expectations. I expect a woman to act like a lady should. No swearing like shes one of my boys, no extremely revealing clothes(except if its just me and her) has not slept with more than 5 people(preferably alot less) must be attractive in my eyes( a woman whos an 8 to me would be some of you guys 10) high moral values, character, integrity...must be smart, well spoken, sense of humor, wants children...those are just some of the things I would look for in aan ideal woman. Ive never been the type to ***** myself around just for kicks. To me getting a girl to sleep with me has never been a challenge.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, I can agree with that. This place should be for people want to boink as many women as they can find, find the optimal lady and settle down, and everything in between. There is supposed to be respect for people's individual goals, but sometimes either the horndogs take over, or the more supposedly pious use this place as an evangelizing tool.
 
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It's all up to the person who is learning this and what they want out of this...

If your coming in here to get your ideal chick good for you, but also remember you'd have to know how to attract women any way before you even meet that ideal girl.

I know for me personally having one gf isn't apart of me and doesn't fit my lifestyle. I'm a guy always on the move, looking for adventure and great experiences, these chicks that I meet come along for the ride in my world as I go on my adventures.

I'm also a sex addict so I don't want no conservative chick, I like them looking really girlie, sexy, and VERY sexual, of course I have other stuff that I like but isn't really necessary so longs she's open minded, sex freak, and adventurous then I'm most likely going to keep her around.

It really comes down to the person and what they want to gain from this.
 
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ok?
Im not getting what your thread is suppose to be telling us other than your standards are better than everyone elses.
I think everyone on here had thought and made up their standards already and it should be completely ok if they are lower than your exceedingly high expectations.
 
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NSUballer said:
It seems that alot of people here are only interested in sleeping with the hottest girl they can find as often as possible. theres something seriously wrong with that idea.

For me, the best thing that can ever happen is that I meet a girl that doesnt just meet my expectations but exceeds them. And I have extremely high expectations. I expect a woman to act like a lady should. No swearing like shes one of my boys, no extremely revealing clothes(except if its just me and her) has not slept with more than 5 people(preferably alot less) must be attractive in my eyes( a woman whos an 8 to me would be some of you guys 10) high moral values, character, integrity...must be smart, well spoken, sense of humor, wants children...those are just some of the things I would look for in aan ideal woman. Ive never been the type to ***** myself around just for kicks. To me getting a girl to sleep with me has never been a challenge.
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So you wouldn't mind having a girlfriend who has been banged by 5 guys! If I dated girls who had been with other guys I would always see their faces (or what I thought they might look like) hanging over their shoulders. To each his own. As long as you can put together a few sober thoughts I am all for you being who you are on here. Best of luck :cheer:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im not saying Im better than anyone else, I expect more from myself so I would expect more from a woman. Ive got enough experience and have seen enough to know that a really good woman isnt easy to find. Im not saying that everyone should think as I do. Its just my personal expectations. There are more than enough whor$ in this world and I personally despise them and dont associate with that kind of people. I have friends that are always taking home girls. I even did that for about 2 months. for me it was not worth it. theres no pride in being able to take a girl home and bang her when I know im definitely not the first to do it.. however I would take much pride in getting a girl that not just any guy can have. Because I know that Im not a guy that just any girl can get just because she throws her pvssy at me. And believe me alot of girls know that about me and they hate on me for it.
 
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I get the vibe that you have something to prove to the people lurking on this website, for some reason or another.
 
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why its only a website? Just trying to offer some insight. I dont have to prove anything to anyone except myself.
 
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It's funny that this guy is looking for a woman who can not only meet, but exceed the highest expectations ever. The hottest girl you've ever met? She is a mere "8" to this guy. She has to be perfect in every way. She has to know how to give a mind-blowing *******, but he won't date her if she's ever actually given a ******* (5 guys is the upper limit, but you want less than that? The fact that you want to ask a girl how many dudes she's been with shows how much you still need to figure out).

I love people who draw out a list of qualifications a girl has to fulfill before he will give her the honor of his romantic interest. Like that's how it works. Come back and re-read this post in 5 years and see how much of this you will still stand behind.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Forms said:
It's funny that this guy is looking for a woman who can not only meet, but exceed the highest expectations ever. The hottest girl you've ever met? She is a mere "8" to this guy. She has to be perfect in every way. She has to know how to give a mind-blowing *******, but he won't date her if she's ever actually given a ******* (5 guys is the upper limit, but you want less than that? The fact that you want to ask a girl how many dudes she's been with shows how much you still need to figure out).

I love people who draw out a list of qualifications a girl has to fulfill before he will give her the honor of his romantic interest. Like that's how it works. Come back and re-read this post in 5 years and see how much of this you will still stand behind.
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There are some amazingly beautiful girls out there that would die to be with him that would fit all those qualifications (many are still virgins). You won't find them in Kansas or NYC though. Get out and use your passports.
 
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