Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey,

In the process of becoming a DJ, a month ago, I, with the help of niceguy91 on this forum, went out to American Eagle and basically changed the style of my clothes. I got some dark boot-cut jeans, an AE gray undershirt, a couple of button-downs, and a couple homestead sweaters. Also, my Mom is going to buy me a lighter color of the same jeans I got or something like that soon.
Right now, I am looking at buying some more apperal and just wanted your opinions. I am looking at getting three things really soon:
-A cap
-A watch
-A new belt
-Maybe some new cologne (current: http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/s...ntCategoryId=10003&categoryId=13651&sortBy=0#)
A watch is pretty much what I want good advice for. I don't want to spend more than $100. The cheaper it costs, the better, but I also want it to be good quality and not cheap-looking. I am taking a look at this: http://www.amazon.com/Invicta-Diver...1_12?ie=UTF8&s=jewelry&qid=1200946746&sr=1-12

So, any suggestions? Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Accually a watch is what I'v been looking into getting also to wear when I'm dressed up. It just seems like its something that most younger guys don't have yet and it looks good and makes you look more mature.

The watch you showed is pretty close to what Im looking for, except I like the dark blueish backgrounds instead of the black since blue is a calm and cool looking color.
 

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I found a relica rolex Im going to buy, it is a professional replica and looks excat, i couldent tell the differnce between the real one and the fake besides the price, a differnce of about 1100 dollors
 

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Yea the leather is an interesting look, I like the first one more than the second. Idk something about the square shape of it puts me off. I think I would still pick metal(I like the feel of the metal on my skin) over leather but still it wouldnt be a bad choice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HandyAndy said:
I think leather band watches look a whole lot better than the metal bands if your going for a casual or formal look. If you want to look formal i think the metal one is better. But i prefer the a black leather band.

I like:
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=175965&CategoryID=29294&LinkType=EverGreen
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=217171&CategoryID=29294

For colognes I HIGHLY recommend
Eternity
Aqua Di Gio
Hugo
Lacoste
Cool Water
Hmm, thanks, but I never really considered leather-it doesn't seem as durable/long lasting. Plus, I am going for a look the ladies dig, so if leather is what the majority of them like, than that is what I will go with. As far as colognes, thanks for the list, but I'm not really experienced with cologne, I hardly wear the stuff. Is there a specific one in particular that isn't to pricey?

Thanks.
 

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You could get Fierce from abercrombie and fitch, its one of the best colognes ive ever smelled and its around 30-40 bucks
All of the colognes i posted are around the 40-50 dollar range. They are quite expensive but worth it, becuase they all smell great. If your willing to spend that much money all the ones above are great. My personal fav. is Eternity :)
 

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I'm clueless when it comes to colognes HAndy.

Is that something i can just walk into walmart or koles and buy or is good cologne found in malls and nicer stores.
 

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john paul said:
I'm clueless when it comes to colognes HAndy.

Is that something i can just walk into walmart or koles and buy or is good cologne found in malls and nicer stores.
Yeah, walmart has brand name fragrances. You can definately go to Target and get brand name ones, all the ones i listed and more can be found there. Macys has all the colognes you could imagine. You dont have to go to the mall.

Heres a couple links that could help you out. PM me if you have other questions, or just post them here.

http://www.askmen.com/fashion/trends/33_fashion_men.html
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_300/355_fashion_advice.html
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/trends/17_fashion_men.html
http://www.askmen.com/money/successful/20_success.html
 

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Every highschool kid wears american eagle. And Abercrombie and fitch. And Pac Sun.

Those aren't classy, they're manufactured "styles and culture" down to the way the stores smell.

Check out H&M, Express, Guess and your local outlets. Calvin Klein, Hugo, DKNY Jeans, A|X, Diesel, Nordstrom Rack etc. Most stores have their big sales after christmas and in July.

Aqua Di Gio is nice, but very, very played.

My current rotation is CK One, Attitude by Armani and L'instant de Guerlain.

Also very good: Gucci Por Homme II, Star Walker by Mont Blanc and Givenchey. (Go into your local Sephoras and find out what the women like.)

Spend the money on the cologne, you do get what you pay for.

Costco has GREAT prices on designer watches, (picked up a $2200 Gucci for $980)

Mind you, most of the stuff listed above isn't cheap, but this is the kinda stuff I wouldn't skimp on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have cool water, eternity, acqui di gio, graphite blue, lucky you, all curves, drakkar noir and a homemade cologne. Acqui is overused but if thats ok with you then its a guarenteed buy. Cool Water is cheaper and I get alot of comliments, although also used alot. Graphite Blue is unique and smells rly good, that is my recommendation. Id also buy 2, and if was to i'd get Cool Water and Graphite Blue.
 

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Rhoto said:
Every highschool kid wears american eagle. And Abercrombie and fitch. And Pac Sun.

Those aren't classy, they're manufactured "styles and culture" down to the way the stores smell.

Check out H&M, Express, Guess and your local outlets. Calvin Klein, Hugo, DKNY Jeans, A|X, Diesel, Nordstrom Rack etc. Most stores have their big sales after christmas and in July.

Aqua Di Gio is nice, but very, very played.

My current rotation is CK One, Attitude by Armani and L'instant de Guerlain.

Also very good: Gucci Por Homme II, Star Walker by Mont Blanc and Givenchey. (Go into your local Sephoras and find out what the women like.)

Spend the money on the cologne, you do get what you pay for.

Costco has GREAT prices on designer watches, (picked up a $2200 Gucci for $980)

Mind you, most of the stuff listed above isn't cheap, but this is the kinda stuff I wouldn't skimp on.

Yea a 900 dollar watch if defenently out of the question with my high paying lifeguard job, haha.
 

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Why in the world would you spend 1000 bucks on a watch..when you can spend 200 and get one that looks just as good, thats also a brand name?
 

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HandyAndy said:
Why in the world would you spend 1000 bucks on a watch..when you can spend 200 and get one that looks just as good, thats also a brand name?
A) Cause ya can.

B) Cause a $1000 watch feels better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I guess some people are just born to live the high life Handyandy.


Us average people will be satisfied with the 200 dollar watch.
 

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john paul said:
Us average people will be satisfied with the 200 dollar watch.
Why be average?

I wasn't born into anything. I work for my money. Stay in school. =)
 

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Rhoto said:
Why be average?

I wasn't born into anything. I work for my money. Stay in school. =)
Alright Rhoto I guess theres no reason you shouldnt buy a great watch as long as you can afford it.
 

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I get compliments on my nixon watch all the time!
I wear my Nixon Manual ($100) casually.
and the Banks ($300) formally.
I LOVE the metal band, wear it in hot tubs, at the beach and any where else.
Looks fly.

I would sugest not wearing a cap, they definetly arnt my style, and Im yet to see someone who actually looks tight in one. (say for black guys)

Clothing is tough, but I like to look spiffy, I iron all my shirts, wear Seven and Deisel Jeans. I wear T shirts on ocasion, and like polo's, with a half **** collar. Am E is an alright start, and the manual by nixon is nice.
Colon is also a great investment, nice to see you lookin out for that.
A good hair cut can help wonders as well!

You may be able to find a clothing stylist, if you go to the right shops.
They will know the stores stock, and find the best clothing for you! You'll pay a bit more, but in the end you will ALWAYS look fly.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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