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My personal adventure

Sammo

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- Responsiveness and how its the only way to improve

Responsiveness

Time goes on and I have learned one of the most valuable lessons about myself (and people in general). As humans it is in our nature to wish to achieve more but as Emerson stated: "Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm". So the secret to getting what we want lies in enthusiasm, but how do you arise this enthusiasm within yourself. It is my belief that humans are very responsive animals, to achieve something great we first must of been given something emotional to respond to. So the trick to all this is finding your most triggering emotional response.

As you will see later on in this post I will be putting myself to the biggest test so far in my life, the problem was that i cant give myself a challenge without having the motivation to carry it the whole way through. So what did i do? I dug deep, i dug deep inside of myself to search for that ONE THING that i would emotionally respond too that would give me the enthusiasm needed to do something great. Responsiveness, it is the key to getting what we want and the key to getting everything we dont want, harnessing its power is something all DJ's need to do.

So how did i discover this emotional response you might be asking? Well i had to look to the past, i had to look at the one time where i was the most motivated in my life to change, the one time that i was enthusiastic about what i was doing and wanted to change, and i had to bring it all back. Once i had brought it back, i had to learn to boost that mind state. How did i do it?? Well i tagged it, i did this by getting myself into this strong state, by imagining, listening to music, etc. Until i was extremely motivated then i set the doggy tag by making a tapping sound with my fingers, now when my body felt that it would remind itself of that motivated state i was in. I brought it back by making that tapping noise every morning and every other time i felt unmotivated. After i had learnt to boost the mind set, i decided to set the test.

The adventure

The goal of this adventure was to do things that i have always planned on doing but never did, I set some goals, an starting/ending date and i went for it. Here is how it goes.

Starting date:3rd of November
Finishing date: 1 of January

The goals are as follows:

  • Completely master Senor Fingers Weapons of Mass Seduction guide!
  • Don't go on the computer at all except for quick e-mails (if you want to reach me for something then feel free to email me at samb_chat@hotmail.com, dont PM me, i wont get it) and studying.
  • Dont play any kind of video games, dont watch TV unless at a social outing.
  • Undertake boxing training twice a week, Jog every single day, gym 3 times a week (use boxing conditioning program), go to the pool 3 times a week, do technique training every day.
  • Study for atleast an hour every single day.
  • Organise CIT course for starting a career in real estate when im 18.
  • Keep a journal of my experiences so i can hopefully teach everyone something new when i get back (January the 1st)
  • Eat extremely healthy and have a good tan.
  • Have atleast 500 bucks in bank account.
  • Masturbate no more then once every 4 days.
  • Most importantly, live by this quote: 'Filling the hour--this is happiness

So this is it, today im going to be on the computer all day (its allready 7:20pm)organising a journal, taking any replies, and getting myself extremely motivated and tagging the motivation so i can bring it back when i need it.

So farewell Don Juans, i wish you all well and cant wait to see how much you have all improved when i return in January!
 

wh01987

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yeah but masterbating makes ur muscles really strong...
 

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Originally posted by wh01987
yeah but masterbating makes ur muscles really strong...
umm.. exscuse me?
 

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Good luck dude.You will notice how much of your time frees up when you go without the Idiotvision and computer in 3/4 days from when you started off your quest at.

And Who1987, which muscle does masturbation strengthen? :p
 

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Sounds like an interesting quest, inspires me to take on board some of the ideas like.... minimum tv and comp usage.

By the way, i reckon wh01987 is talking about the forearm. :cool:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Smooth as Anything

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Hahaha... total bull****!

My forerarm hurts like **** from playing guitar :D

And beleive me, I have "excercised" my forearm with this "method" to a "healthy" degree.

As far as Sammo's post:

It's a good idea, I've done something along the lines of it before. I don't even watch TV at this point.

I love music, I can barely live without it. I start to flipout, I'm addicted...

It's good to see you're moving on from something a few of us (in age from this forum) already have.

Attracting women is simple as **** in highschool, and some of us were gifted with brains capable of realizing that there is more to life than the objective reality we've been clouded to beleive as everything in existance.

Love women, love life, love family, and to be completely honest I am not certain of the degree in which I should love myself.

I have so little time on this Earth but I must be patient. A contradicting existance, indeed.
 

Oxide

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Good Luck Sammo, i will begin my journey as well. Working on my jumpshot and my body is always fun.
 

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this sounds pretty cool.. I may try somethin like that myself a little later. Im totally waitin for Jan 1st to hear your experiences. Hell maybe ull like it so much you wont come back eh.
 

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im inspired...i shall lower my tv watching and computer usage heavily also...start working out and working harder at getting a job...im with you guys!

the punk DJ
 

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Too easy! Huh? What am i doing back? Its been 10 days and this **** isnt entertaining anymore, my step back and spending time with my passion has flooded my mind with all kinds of thoughts of marvelous possibilities.

Im back, for now:p i will be making a lot of posts ive been meaning too but then ill be off again, im here to Help you guys, to grow with you guys, nothing more, nothing less.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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