"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whats up everybody, well when i was in junior high all girls used to diss me (more than 40) and they always used to make fun of me and **** so i started to become less confident.
The first year of high school i went to study to Canada and there i was a fukin pimp, i had tonz of hot girls i always used to tease them and being ****y and funny naturally, they loved me!

then i came back to mexico and i dont have ****, only ugly and fat ones (-5) in scale from 1 to 10. Here i started a LTR with a scale 1 and then she dumped me for another guy.

So now i have the mentality that here in mexico i cant get hot girls, im 19 and i still get rejected without having only 1 decent girl (2+) is not even funny...


i dont know whats wrong cuz on spring break i went to the US and i had 2 hot cheerleaders fighting over me (im serious)
Whenever i go to the US i get a hot girl, is funny cuz i can be at the mall and girls start approaching me.

Now i think i only can get ugly and fat chicks in mexico i dont even try to get one.

I hate it here, theres not real money, no fine ass girls, nothing!

just to let you know i aint a fukin loser, im a boxer, i started weightlifting, a lot of girls say im hot, im ****y and funny naturally, i have a nice ride
but i just cant get a fukin girl here...

When im with american or canadian girls i always start saying that im a smooth pimp and that i want to tap their asses and **** and they just laugh and say im cute, but with mexican girls i get slapped and dissed :(

I think im wasting my life here, so after college im gonna move to canada for like 4 years and enjoy life and pursue my dream (laid 100 girls) and then come back to continue with my family business.


i bought the book "the mack within" of Tariq "King Flex" Nasheed and is awsome

i have tried approaching lots of girls but i always get rejected (last semester i approached like 100) so now i think im just gonna give up and wait until i move to canada

for me is very easy to pull a canadian/american chick and real fine ass girls, but here in mexico not even the ones that looks like dogs!

what u think????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its called the "foreigner" appeal... i.e. when you go to a different place, your "different" i.e. something new.. something exciting, i.e. your different from everyone else.. makes you stand out and get laid... I wish I can go to europe right now... with my skills I would be getting laid everynight with HOT euro blondes.... sigh...
 

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i agree with djbn it's funny cause if you're new to a place or something like that you get more girls interested in you then if you have been there for a while same thing happen to me back in middle school for a while but now those days are over
 

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They hit it right on the head. People from an area get used to each other and eventually tired of seeing the same people all the time. You're definitely not alone though, because after 5 years of college (and graduating) I still have yet to do anything with a girl within 2 hours drive of my home (and the same applies with the UG's from my area who were interested). Luckily for me my university is 3 hours away.
 
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i know that, but what can i do with my fukin problem??? im serious i have done all this things, but here in mexico they dont work for me...

i dress nice, i have a nice body (i workout) im avg looking, im ****y and funny naturally etc etc but i dont get ****...
damn
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mexican_player2 said:
i know that, but what can i do with my fukin problem??? im serious i have done all this things, but here in mexico they dont work for me...

i dress nice, i have a nice body (i workout) im avg looking, im ****y and funny naturally etc etc but i dont get ****...
damn
mexico sucks just kidding i was in a class with a girl not to long ago who was mexican she said that a lot of the mexican guys had what was called machovoiness (some mexican word) where they act real macho well it's the same thing for me maybe your not like other mexican guys contrary to popular belief if you are the same as other guys you probably will get more butt i'm not a thug but a lot of other dudes are if i were and treated women badly then i would get more ass to specifially with dumb girl that's my only advice for you man is to act the same but keep your core personality
 
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yeah man mexico sucks except for the food haha, that machovoiness you said means just being an a$$hole, but that is a thing of the past, nowadays everybody is a wussy with the females, they are complete AFCs they buy them flowers and chocolate and call them all days and pay her everything she wants and chit and they get the females, im not like that, when im with a girl i act like a mack and i never pay them nothing i dont like to be "fighting" to get a girl and to me theyre fukin ugly compared to foreign girls , as a true mack i like cooperation.

a lot of people tell me thats my problem, but i love more my money than hoes

damn!! lol well i'll just wait until i graduate so i can move to another place
 

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mexican_player2 said:
yeah man mexico sucks except for the food haha, that machovoiness you said means just being an a$$hole, but that is a thing of the past, nowadays everybody is a wussy with the females, they are complete AFCs they buy them flowers and chocolate and call them all days and pay her everything she wants and chit and they get the females, im not like that, when im with a girl i act like a mack and i never pay them nothing i dont like to be "fighting" to get a girl and to me theyre fukin ugly compared to foreign girls , as a true mack i like cooperation.

a lot of people tell me thats my problem, but i love more my money than hoes

damn!! lol well i'll just wait until i graduate so i can move to another place
you remind me a little bit of myself i think black girls are sometimes less attractive then a lot of other races but i still love them i also don't like to fight to get girls and probably never will a lot of guys also wuss out i was in when my friend went to prom his girl was over talking and talking and talking and he never said a word just sat there which is not like him at all i'm with ya on the moving thing to i'm shipping out in august and i'm not coming back (i know this sounds cold) even if i never see my family again
 
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