don juan jr
Don Juan
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What is an afc???
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AFC stands for AverageFrustedChumpdon juan jr said:What is an afc???
But look before approaching a girl its nervwracking but by saying hi to every girl its gonna help you feel comfortable and let the nervous leave then you can approach simple as that case closed.But most guys will just ignore me and see me as some nerd,so they would beat up.check_mate_kid_uk said:Dont know about your town dreamx, but here if you attemped to make ec with every guy you are going to get yourself beaten up sevral times a day.
I also do not see how saying hi to every girl in constructive, if you are wlaking through the mall, there are so many girls, there is no point trying to say hi to every girl in your proximity. Just do an aproach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lol the hood ,no man I leave in the suburns theres alot of girls in my neighborhood but im errr always in this ****en house.I havent even started the bootcamp yet.Man I need to get outside im tired of being in my house and the computer all day! Tommorrow im going to go outside and start the bootcamp so I will post on what happened.WesCottII said:Leave him be Check, it's a big step for him.
Looking at everyguy get you beaten up? Where'd you live? the "hood"?
Good work Dreamx.
check_mate_kid_uk said:Theres plenty of chavs here that if you tyr and make ec with them will start on you. If you do something it should be constructive. No one goes along makeing ec with every one, well i actualy do with a lot of girls, you can do but whats important is to make ec with people oyu actualy interact with e.g. the cashier at a shop when you buy something.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
1) Check.1) Eat healthty
2) Exersice
3)Start thinking positive
4)Try getting new hobbies
5)Join clubs, meet new people
6)Get SOME style, get hair style, look better!!!
7)Fukk them bullies up!!!
8)Go in the field and ask 10 chiks out EVERY DAY!!!
9)Talk to as many people as possible
10) Take acting classes
Sorry mate I didnt know this forum is just for AFCsdreamx said:If you always been a jerk then why are you on this site?Most jerks who are naturaly get women with no books,or websites so why are you on here since you said your always a jerk?Answer my question otherwise your a troll!
We need something like this, the original DJ Boot Camp focuses more on College and macking babes in the real world, than in a High School environment.
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1) Eat healthty
2) Exersice
3)Start thinking positive
4)Try getting new hobbies
5)Join clubs, meet new people
6)Get SOME style, get hair style, look better!!!
7)Fukk them bullies up!!!
8)Go in the field and ask 10 chiks out EVERY DAY!!!
9)Talk to as many people as possible
10) Take acting classes
1) Check.
2) Check.
3) I don't do this, but hey, what's there to be positive about? I'm just a depressed ***** who can't approach girls. Also, what if you like the girl? That's bad advice, because you could screw up your chances with her.
4) Check.
5) I'm not exactly in any clubs, but I have done sports before. I don't have to go to track anymore, because yesterday was the Junior varsity practice, so only people who are in varsity have to go.
6) Check.
7) I'm hardly strong enough to f*ck up any bullies in this school. All they have to do is that thing where they hold your arms behind your back, and your screwed, because obviously you can't fight them without your arms and getting out of something like that, can be difficult.
8) I'm too insecure to do this. I don't know how to open correctly on a chick, and I just don't think she would be interested in me.
9) Sorry, but I'm not good at making small talk with people.
10) Check, I already take drama.
I want to become that Don Juan who gets all the ladies, who doesn't get nervous around girls, however makes the girl nervous(in a good way, of course),but I honestly just think I'm too much of a *****. I'm one of those guys, that needs a seduction coach, someone who can watch me approach and tell me what I could do better. I honestly think thats the only way that I'm going to get better at approaching.
I want to stop making love to my right hand, and actually get the girls that I fantasize about in bed.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thanks for the advice man. Tommorow I'm going to push myself to approach as many chicks as I can, and I'm not going to worry about the outcome, because like you said, it doesn't matter whether it goes good or bad, I'm still getting practice. One chick I already have my mind set on approaching is this chick named Janine, who sits across from me on the bus. I'm kind of scared, because the chick honestly the chick doesn't look like the welcoming type of girl; she always listens to her iPod, she hardly ever smiles, she has that punk look and I've even caught her giving me bad looks before, but I'm still going to try and approach her, whether it goes good or bad. Who knows, she could be a complete b*tch or I could just be judging her by her cover, when she's actually a nice girl, nonetheless, I'm approaching her. What do you guys think I should open with? Will a simple, "Hey, what's your name?", work as an opener?shydude said:Well see!! There you go!! YOU should start talking to random chicks, thats is the easiest way to loose shyness, no one will give you a pill that makes you confident, unless you are HIGH.. And start talking to to people too, doesnt matter you are good at it or you suck at it, all it takes is practice, you can accomplish anything if you put your mind to it.
START THNKING POSITIVE= I read your posts, you are not thinking in a good way, you keep thinking bad things WILL HAPPEN, you think everyone thinks your slow, you think chiks hate you, you think you are ugly, you think your voice is retarded....= all those things are Not TRUE, its only that YOU thinkin Negatively, and you should start thinking positivelly, and how do you think positivelly?? Well you take risks, you srtart approaching girls, you start thinking you are the hottest guy in school, you start thinking everyone wants you and needs you, and never give a dam about rejection. ALL CHIKS CANT GIVE YOU THEIR NUMBERS!!!!!!!!!Only those that have time, those that are interested, and those that are willing to get to know you will give you their numbers. Do you like all the women?? NO you dont, you cant like all women!! Same thing goes for chiks, they cant just like all men, they have their own taste, so dont be fooled if girls reject you, its just a no, there is a no and there is a yes, and you will get a no a lot!
You dont need to fight people that offend you, instead you need to have brains and solve the problem without getting yourself suspended. Dont be scared to break jaw either, if the things get really rough try to handle them as a men, with some homies backing you up, try not to fight in school, couse fight will not end there, only suspension will be made.
GOOD LUCK!!
Thanks for the advice man. Tommorow I'm going to push myself to approach as many chicks as I can, and I'm not going to worry about the outcome, because like you said, it doesn't matter whether it goes good or bad, I'm still getting practice. One chick I already have my mind set on approaching is this chick named Janine, who sits across from me on the bus. I'm kind of scared, because the chick honestly the chick doesn't look like the welcoming type of girl; she always listens to her iPod, she hardly ever smiles, she has that punk rocker look and I've even caught her giving me bad looks before, but I'm still going to try and approach her, whether it goes good or bad. Who knows, she could be a complete b*tch or I could just judging her by her cover, when she's actually a nice girl, nonetheless, I'm approaching her. What do you guys think I should open with? Will a simple, "Hey, what's your name?", work as an opener?shydude said:Well see!! There you go!! YOU should start talking to random chicks, thats is the easiest way to loose shyness, no one will give you a pill that makes you confident, unless you are HIGH.. And start talking to to people too, doesnt matter you are good at it or you suck at it, all it takes is practice, you can accomplish anything if you put your mind to it.
START THNKING POSITIVE= I read your posts, you are not thinking in a good way, you keep thinking bad things WILL HAPPEN, you think everyone thinks your slow, you think chiks hate you, you think you are ugly, you think your voice is retarded....= all those things are Not TRUE, its only that YOU thinkin Negatively, and you should start thinking positivelly, and how do you think positivelly?? Well you take risks, you srtart approaching girls, you start thinking you are the hottest guy in school, you start thinking everyone wants you and needs you, and never give a dam about rejection. ALL CHIKS CANT GIVE YOU THEIR NUMBERS!!!!!!!!!Only those that have time, those that are interested, and those that are willing to get to know you will give you their numbers. Do you like all the women?? NO you dont, you cant like all women!! Same thing goes for chiks, they cant just like all men, they have their own taste, so dont be fooled if girls reject you, its just a no, there is a no and there is a yes, and you will get a no a lot!
You dont need to fight people that offend you, instead you need to have brains and solve the problem without getting yourself suspended. Dont be scared to break jaw either, if the things get really rough try to handle them as a men, with some homies backing you up, try not to fight in school, couse fight will not end there, only suspension will be made.
GOOD LUCK!!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.