“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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amnbyrd

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A few hours ago I broke up with my girlfriend who Ive been dating for the past month. The thing with me is after dating someone for about a month or so I always get bored with them and start thinking to myself that I want a hotter more attractive girl though I have high standards so the girls I go out with are hot to begin with. Also after awhile ppl start to get on my nerves. ANyone else have this problem? I feel really bad as this girl was completly into me since I was such a sweet guy you treated her the best shes ever been treated and didnt push her to have sex and then outta nowhere I break things off. I kinda have this ideal woman in my mind and I think for me not to get bored she'd have to be like a hb 9 or so. I know this way of thinking could untimately leave me alone but it gets to the point where I feel like I have to break things off since I get so unhappy with things. Input would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amnbyrd said:
A few hours ago I broke up with my girlfriend who Ive been dating for the past month. The thing with me is after dating someone for about a month or so I always get bored with them and start thinking to myself that I want a hotter more attractive girl though I have high standards so the girls I go out with are hot to begin with. Also after awhile ppl start to get on my nerves. ANyone else have this problem? I feel really bad as this girl was completly into me since I was such a sweet guy you treated her the best shes ever been treated and didnt push her to have sex and then outta nowhere I break things off. I kinda have this ideal woman in my mind and I think for me not to get bored she'd have to be like a hb 9 or so. I know this way of thinking could untimately leave me alone but it gets to the point where I feel like I have to break things off since I get so unhappy with things. Input would be appreciated.

How do you see her? As skin and bones???
 

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No, when I first met her I found her to be really attractive and cared a lot but I guess nothing lasts forever
 

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Fvck, dude.

Just because some woman is an "HB 9" DOES NOT mean you CANNOT get bored with her.

Dude, LOOKS are not the foundation for a successful relationship.


She can be 'hawt' and be half brain dead, not pay her bills, flake on you, forgetful and not have any goals or ambition, and want to watch American Idol every day.....


Re evealuate this notion , dude.


You may want to read this and get a REAL understanding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144038
 
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