"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My own little problem

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This is something that's probably unique to me. I have the whole confidence thing down, I can walk up to any girl I wanted to, without hesitation. My problem is that, although anything I say to them comes out in a conident way, I usually can't come up with something good. I gotta improve and get better at conversation, so that when I make my approaches, I can actually make some progress.

Now that I've adressed the problem, I plan to fix it, but I'm gonna need some help, since if I continue the trial and error method, I'll develop a bad reputation (If I haven't already)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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... so does anyone have something that can help me out? Girls usually like my confidence, but after talking for a bit, I have trouble following everything up. I'm improving naturally, but I'm not satisfied until I'm at the top of my game.
 

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Shame nobody has answered. I have the same problem so tell me when you find the answer.
 
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