"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My own little problem

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This is something that's probably unique to me. I have the whole confidence thing down, I can walk up to any girl I wanted to, without hesitation. My problem is that, although anything I say to them comes out in a conident way, I usually can't come up with something good. I gotta improve and get better at conversation, so that when I make my approaches, I can actually make some progress.

Now that I've adressed the problem, I plan to fix it, but I'm gonna need some help, since if I continue the trial and error method, I'll develop a bad reputation (If I haven't already)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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... so does anyone have something that can help me out? Girls usually like my confidence, but after talking for a bit, I have trouble following everything up. I'm improving naturally, but I'm not satisfied until I'm at the top of my game.
 

Leaderofthepack

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Shame nobody has answered. I have the same problem so tell me when you find the answer.
 
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