"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My own friend or so i thought

SikWitIt

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So i thought this dude was my friend you know we had alot in common but, awhile back i was datin these two chicks now of course they didnt know about each other but my "Friend" decided to let one of them know i was seein sumbodyelse.

So this ******* goes and tells girl #2 i was at girl #1 house watchin a movie late at night and we were messin around. So she confronted me and ask who i was seeing besides her and i was like who told you that? Anway that all blew up in my face thanks to this *******, so the guy has a really big mouth i found out.

So i stoped hanging out with him but didnt ignore the dude, so couple months pass i start talkin to this chick where we work and i get her number and all that good stuff we go out on a date etc.. i told my "friend" about the date and what i thought about her.

He goes and tells the chick that i was talkin **** about her and she shouldnt talk to me anymore? WTF man why would you do that to another guy especially a friend i mean i could of stolen and boned his g/f plenty of times but i had respect for him and didnt even tell him that his girl was hittin on me.

Anyway what would you do?:box:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phyzzle

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Stop reporting your love life to your friends.
 

Desdinova

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WTF man why would you do that to another guy especially a friend
He's not a friend if he's trying to fvck up your personal life.

People will have a negative effect on your life if you allow them to. You can easily put an end to this bull5hit by eliminating him from your life. There's an old saying that goes "with friends like that, who needs enemies?"

Cut him out of your life. Get some friends who will help you climb the mountain instead of pushing you off the cliff.
 

fertileTurtle

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No s**t, he sounds like a jealous queer--possibly after you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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skip2mylou781

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SikWitIt - why did u tell him about ur date after what he did to u?? and by the way, why didnt u kick his ass after he messed up ur game?????

btw ur "friend" is a bigtime AFC if hes gonna go report ur actions to the girls ur trying to play

hurt him really badly, and dont get caught!
 

flexion_

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If you don't want people to find out personal things then don't tell people.

Ever heard of ... "I don't kiss and tell." ???
 
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