Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My own friend or so i thought

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SikWitIt

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So i thought this dude was my friend you know we had alot in common but, awhile back i was datin these two chicks now of course they didnt know about each other but my "Friend" decided to let one of them know i was seein sumbodyelse.

So this ******* goes and tells girl #2 i was at girl #1 house watchin a movie late at night and we were messin around. So she confronted me and ask who i was seeing besides her and i was like who told you that? Anway that all blew up in my face thanks to this *******, so the guy has a really big mouth i found out.

So i stoped hanging out with him but didnt ignore the dude, so couple months pass i start talkin to this chick where we work and i get her number and all that good stuff we go out on a date etc.. i told my "friend" about the date and what i thought about her.

He goes and tells the chick that i was talkin **** about her and she shouldnt talk to me anymore? WTF man why would you do that to another guy especially a friend i mean i could of stolen and boned his g/f plenty of times but i had respect for him and didnt even tell him that his girl was hittin on me.

Anyway what would you do?:box:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phyzzle

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Stop reporting your love life to your friends.
 
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WTF man why would you do that to another guy especially a friend
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He's not a friend if he's trying to fvck up your personal life.

People will have a negative effect on your life if you allow them to. You can easily put an end to this bull5hit by eliminating him from your life. There's an old saying that goes "with friends like that, who needs enemies?"

Cut him out of your life. Get some friends who will help you climb the mountain instead of pushing you off the cliff.
 
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No s**t, he sounds like a jealous queer--possibly after you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SikWitIt - why did u tell him about ur date after what he did to u?? and by the way, why didnt u kick his ass after he messed up ur game?????

btw ur "friend" is a bigtime AFC if hes gonna go report ur actions to the girls ur trying to play

hurt him really badly, and dont get caught!
 
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If you don't want people to find out personal things then don't tell people.

Ever heard of ... "I don't kiss and tell." ???
 
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