Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Basically, I met this guy... we had some fun, drank way too much, ending up hooking up and having what I THOUGHT was a one-night stand... We exchanged numbers, which I thought was just a courtesy, but he's been consistently calling and asking me to hang out.
It's not that I don't like him, but I'm kind of just dealing with too much right now and seeing a few guys and well, without going into detail, my current situation doesn't really allow for me to be going out every night.
At first I kept turning him down for plans because I honestly couldn't hang out... Now the more involved I get with these other guys, not to sound ****ty, but I realize that I just can't handle another guy in my life. (Note: none of these guys think I am exclusively dating them, they all know the deal... that I am dating other people, but it's kind of on a don't ask-don't tell basis).
I don't want to lie to this guy, but I also don't want to string him along anymore (I wasn't intentionally stringing him along at first, I really thought we'd hang out eventually, but now I'm thinking I'd rather not waste the time getting involved with someone new). I don't want to be a ***** and be mean, one, because I like and respect this guy and don't want to hurt his feelings (not that he'd be CRUSHED, but still, I want to have some common decency here) and two, because he is close with a few of my friends who I don't think would appreciate it if I jerked him around and just blew him off. (That is also why I can't pretend to have a serious boyfriend, because he'd find out that was a lie... plus I don't want to outright lie).
I really didn't realize he was interested in me (still not convinced if he is interested in ME or in just ****ING me... but either way he keeps calling and I'm not really into hanging out)... I know most of you will either call me a ***** or a tease... or call him a AFC... but if anyone has ANY ideas on nice ways to let him down easy I'd really appreciate it.
It's not that I don't like him, but I'm kind of just dealing with too much right now and seeing a few guys and well, without going into detail, my current situation doesn't really allow for me to be going out every night.
At first I kept turning him down for plans because I honestly couldn't hang out... Now the more involved I get with these other guys, not to sound ****ty, but I realize that I just can't handle another guy in my life. (Note: none of these guys think I am exclusively dating them, they all know the deal... that I am dating other people, but it's kind of on a don't ask-don't tell basis).
I don't want to lie to this guy, but I also don't want to string him along anymore (I wasn't intentionally stringing him along at first, I really thought we'd hang out eventually, but now I'm thinking I'd rather not waste the time getting involved with someone new). I don't want to be a ***** and be mean, one, because I like and respect this guy and don't want to hurt his feelings (not that he'd be CRUSHED, but still, I want to have some common decency here) and two, because he is close with a few of my friends who I don't think would appreciate it if I jerked him around and just blew him off. (That is also why I can't pretend to have a serious boyfriend, because he'd find out that was a lie... plus I don't want to outright lie).
I really didn't realize he was interested in me (still not convinced if he is interested in ME or in just ****ING me... but either way he keeps calling and I'm not really into hanging out)... I know most of you will either call me a ***** or a tease... or call him a AFC... but if anyone has ANY ideas on nice ways to let him down easy I'd really appreciate it.