well a couple of weeks ago i met a woman from myspace we were talking for a few months on txt messaging and we agreed on a possible future. She would tell me she loves me over txt and we would talk about a future. Then we met in person a few weeks ago, i travelled 4 hours to see her and when I did i was a bit shocked as she was bigger than i had anticipated. However i began to like her when we kissed a lot and hugged. We agreed to go cinema and the place was dark and we kissed some more but nothing happened beyond kissing because i felt i had to be respectable on the first date.. so after more kissing which went on a lot during the 8 hours we spent together i dropped her off to her train station. She told me to txt her and then she had bye. Now i am a moody guy and i wanted her to initiate contact but she did not she just did not txt me. Then i got home and the next day i txtd her she then apologised for nt txting me and said she was ill. She was not talking to me the way she used to also then she said she was admitted in hospital and then the communication dropped big time as i have not heard from her since. can someone tell me what i did wrong
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You spent months talking to her online/texting....before even meeting her. You "agreed on a possible future"....again, before even meeting her.west said:
So basically, you sound desperate as hell. You're willing to put yourself in a relationship with a girl you've never seen in person.
Right now it just seems like after the girl met you, she decided that she didn't like you. Which happens a lot with women. But this is the reason why you shouldn't wait months and months before meeting a woman.
You wasted all this time chatting with her online before finding out if there was even physical chemistry. Never do that again.
