My On-Campus Field Report (AFC)

[SnowconeMan]

Well guys, yall are probably awaiting to hear from me on everything that has happened.. Here goes!

On friday, the girl who I NEXT'd called me. She even sent me some TM's during the Super Bowl, and I called her back. I replied a couple of times. I really don't know why she started this weekend. It was just saying hi, and she was glad the Pat's won... I sure wasn't!

Well, today was my first day back to school. This one girl who I started talking with after an afternoon class, wasn't there today! There was this other girl in here, so I just chatted with her. Since it's a class w/ soo many more girls, it was good letting the attention just come to me. With the girls that I see at school, I even managed to put some in Facebook. I just plan to use facebook as a way to know the girls, not to use computer or anything... It helps if you do it right!

Question 1= With the areas that I have troubles with, which entries should I look for in the DJB?

Question 2= What should I do now? Am I slipping?

 

[SnowconeMan]

Not trying to be annoying by bumping, but I was just awaiting a couple replies...

 

[Royal Elite]

A fireman isnt a hero because he went into a fiery building and saved 5 kids, he is heroic because he went into the firery building to begin with.

What makes you better, and what makes you a man is not talking to 100 women and getting 90 numbers; what makes you a man is talking to 100 women. You cant control anybody else's action, so too many of you get down for getting dissed. Dont focus on the results, focus on the fact you tried. As long as you went from not talking to trying, thats the real test. So snow you are doing great, just keep on trying. Thats the real test. No matter what you do "some women will like you and some wont".

 

[SnowconeMan]

Today was another respectable day. On the scale from 1-10, I'd probably give it a 6. Since I carpool, I usually wake up whenever I arrive on campus. I wasn't even half awake and whenever I was walking to my class, this one girl spoke to me, and we talked for a minute or too. Whenever I went in the classroom, we had a test. I had a chance to talk to a HB9, but was preoccupied. It wasn't such a bad start to the day. I even would notice myself eyed by la chicas. I don't really have much of a chance to interact with other girls till my 2PM class. Whenever I get in there, I exercise my social skills the best that I can, especially since its a small class where everyone interacts. Like I said in other posts, I use facebook, I don't depend on it, but it helps! Well, that was pretty much my day!

Rew

 

[Caldus]

Hey man good work on actually getting out there and trying to meet women. I need to start doing that myself again.

 

[SnowconeMan]

Thanks guys for all of the compliments... however, somehow it still sux that i'm not in a relationship, whenever the rest of the world seemingly is...

 

[SnowconeMan]

How can yall deal with that?

 

[SnowconeMan]

Greetings! Well, most of you guys are probably punching yourselves in the face (inside joke) wondering where on earth I am, and how my lady life is going.

Yesterday morning, the girl in class came up and talked to me. My voice was out and I was still half-asleep I said a little bit, not an awful lot. However, what she did say set a platform for convo tomorrow.

Whenever I came to my afternoon class, I found a girl who may be a prospect This shall be interesting since she seems to be the studious type which I seem to dig. I dont know how to cold approacher her though.. bummer...

After class, I went in the library and this girl from my old school and intership was there.. she had many other girls w/ her.. I didn't really have the b@lls to go up and start a convo.

There was this other girl I saw on campus, who seemed to be the type to turn me on. That didn't matter, since I'm not after a ONS, but still, damn!!

In Facebook earlier tonight, a girl even asked why I skipped class.

All in all, ever since my new beginning, I've been able to open my eyes and see all of the opportunities out there. I just don't know how to carry it on, and I'm not sure of who I want. I'm not implying that I should fall into the oneitis trap, but I'll be honest in saying that I'm not completely sure of what I'm doing...

Cheers!

 

[SnowconeMan]

Yeah, and I haven't heard from Super Bowl girl since that night :-(
I'm not saying that I'm the type who goes for a ONS, but it seems like the good pretentious girls are the ones who give you the most trouble.

I walked into my 8 AM class today and had a short convo with the girl who sits next to me. I decided to cut her off, so I wont leave her hanging... especially, if I'm short on conversational skills...

There's also this one girl in there who seems to always want to come up and talk, but why does it have the be the wrong side of the day?? I am anything but a morning person... ah well...

Come my afternoon class, and this girl who I was interested in a couple of weeks ago came up and talked to me. We got a chance to catch up. In class, she would be giggling and everything I would do and say.. I still can't close, but I have Facebook though...

Not to sound AFC, but I know how that it's quite a tool, one can't just depend on it.. but it helps..

What should I do now?? It still feels like I'm in circles not knowing what I want....

And how should I use my personality to attract the females??

Oh, and bad news, I need to get back on the treadmill.. I was doing good there, and then I went out of town.. started back on sweets and have gotten lazy

Well, I'm out for now, I am still open to all advice.., and am improving, but I still have a looooooong way to go.

Cheers!

 

[SnowconeMan]

That and when the crap will Doc Love stop using celebrity citations????????

 

[Chemistry]

Pretentious girls most trouble... generally yes because they're all about image... if they've got a choice of settlin down with 1 guy or havin the attention of 10 then they will go for the second option, but really they are young so they're out to have fun and be a little selfish... up your game, and your image and they are attainable

Drop the relationship goal... insert the sex, and general pulling women goal, its much more fun... you don't have to spend your time doing things with your GF in mind... if you go out see a HB9 you can't pick her up, you've got to **** the same person for X amount of time...

But really, just keep talkin to these girls... don't read too much into they looked into my direction, they started talkin to me etc because those are general social actions... your not oncampus to be a loner, everyone is there with a common purpose so you'll initiate friendly convo, but its with this friendly convo that you can really open them up and game them... failing that, just be seen with these girls even on a friends basis to use them as social proof, and work yourself up to having the game and confidence to get with a HB9... HBs are easily jealous so if they see you with a few HB9s, they'll wonder what the deal is and why they're not involved in all this... and thats when they're most vulnerable for the pick up before they get a part of the group and no longer have that desire