"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jersey2523

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i'm not a leftist

my left views: banning all guns because they are the culprits in most violent crime, pro choice though you pay your own way, essential services should be government services like police, fire, water, highways.

my center views: no gay marriage but allow domestic partnerships, a compromise to make everybody happy.

my right views: eliminating hud, dept of education, and well over half of government agencies. government agencies not eliminated would be mostly shrunk and made more efficient. favoring school choice. repealing obamacare and leaving insurance to the free market. eliminating or weakening most government regulations. foreign policy should put the usa first, our allies second, our enemies last. banning affirmative action. i voted for mitt romney. george zimmerman was rightfully found innocent and should be regarded as a hero for pulling that family from their vehicle. banning all unions.

my rightist list is longer than my leftist list.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are entitled to your views.. But watch the personal attacks on other members.. And report any on personal attacks to you to a moderator by clicking on the "report post" icon or PM me or any moderator. Thanks, Lefty
 

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logicallefty said:
You are entitled to your views.. But watch the personal attacks on other members.. And report any on personal attacks to you to a moderator by clicking on the "report post" icon or PM me or any moderator. Thanks, Lefty
I got negged by two users, you have to admit those were low blows.
 
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Jersey2523 said:
I got needed by two users, you have to admit those were low blows.
Yeah I deleted some posts and if there are others please let us know.
 
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