"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my nipples....

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So, weird title, i know lol.

Anyway, I am in good shape, 5'11", 176 pounds, low body fat as you can see my abs very well and am overall pretty cut and lean. I get a lot of poeple telling me how cut up i look, etc. all that stuff. whatever. My problem is my nipples!! My chest development is not GREAT, but its decent. Overall my body looks good. My nipples, though, are very weird.

Most people nippes(or the areola part i guess) are a circle. Mine don't seem to be that shape, its almsot like they are stretched, or pulling to the sides. They stretch across from left to right, which makes them stick out and look puffy. This kind of throws off the looks of my chest i feel. They also feel puffy. They stick out to the sides and are stretched thin, kind of like they are winking at me, lol.

They look much better when they are hard. The problem is that it is pretty noticeable when i wear a thin t-shirt, my nips stick out and look pufy. I have heard of something called gynoplasta or soemthign to that affect, but am not sure if it is that.

Basically i was just wondering if anybody had any advice n what i could do to make them look a little more round lol, different chest exercises or somethign maybe. Tis thread may seem like a joke or stupid but im serious, its embarassing.

Any suggestions?? Thanks guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How old are you? I know what your talking about,I have that crap sometimes. I'm 19 and I was told it should go away when puberty slows down. I notice it goes away and goes to 'normal' when I'm cold,weird.
 

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Yeah, it sounds like you have a small case of gyno and I think I do too. My nipples are kinda puffy and stick out but when I push in on them or are really cold, they go down to normal size. This started when I hit puberty at about age 13 and it's stayed this way, and I am 21 now. It's caused by a rise in estrogen when you hit puberty, which doesn't make sense to me because I thought when ppl hit puberty they rose in testosterone, but whatever. I think if you are over16, then most likely the only way to get rid of it is to get the surgery done. There are some pills you can take to reduce it, but it doesn't work for everyone. Actually I believe that 60% of men has some sort of minor gyno.
 

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stop smoking so much weed, and take estrogen blocking pills
 

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ryannath said:
It's caused by a rise in estrogen when you hit puberty, which doesn't make sense to me because I thought when ppl hit puberty they rose in testosterone, but whatever.
Excess test. turns into estrogen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blinkwatt said:
Excess test. turns into estrogen.

Are you sure??? Because I'm horny all the time and have hard time keeping my hands off of me, even while banging those hoes. Funny, because I have like a b cup, lol.

Can you point me to a book or study, or some trusted external source that proves that excess test causes estrogen? If this turn to be true I might want to take estrogen blockers.




As for the OP. This seller sells gyno wests. Click here. I got two. They cover your nipples, and breasts, and you look normal. They're white, and cool looking even under a black shirt, gives you that nice contrast.
 

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djSlvt said:
Can you point me to a book or study, or some trusted external source that proves that excess test causes estrogen? If this turn to be true I might want to take estrogen blockers.
Sorry I can't find the study that I took it from,wish I could cause I bet it had a reference on how to stop/slow estrogen levels.
 

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Kerpal, man, don't be ashamed. It's not a huge thing to tell your parents. It's not like you are telling them you have AIDS. I meantioned something to my mom about having it once and that I think I need to get surgery to take care of it, and I said, you see how they stick out some and she said, "yeah, but you gotta pay for it yourself." And, that was that. It's not like she made fun or anything and I highly doubt your parents will either.
 

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Dude I used to worry about somewhat,but I learned way to avoid it;

-work out,the bigger your chest gets,the smaller they look

-wear black wife beaters if your going to wear one
 

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stop smoking so much weed,

do you have anything to back this up. ??:confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Could it be water retention? Cause some days my chest looks fabulous...then other days i wanna vomit!
 

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I will tell you...

I'm almost certain you and the other posters here have Gynecomastia.

It's nothing to be ashamed of and many guys have it. Especially kids in puberty. With high testosterone comes high levels of estrogen. Guys who take steroids also sometimes get this.

There are two forms. One - if it's just fast. The second is where you can feel a small lump underneath the nipple - that's breast tissue. There is only one cure for it - surgery. It's expensive though. I have found it's only really an issue if you make it an issue. If they are ridiculously big then sure surgery is fine. But something small and minor I suggest you try to live with it.

Do a google search with images and you'll find tons of before and after pictures of this.
 
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